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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 558098" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I have been there done that for many decades in my efforts to protect my two grandsons. When GFGmom gave birth to a daughter I finally realized that I "may" have done too much with her first two children. More importantly I vowed not to lose more decades of my life in attempts to make sure my granddaughter was growing up in a healthy environment. That little girl is now in fouth grade. She truly does not know what "normal living" means...but she is alive and has not been abused.</p><p></p><p>You have worked hard to make progress in your life and for your future. Of course I don't know the whole story but my gut tells me to suggest that you should "detach", focus on your life and like a good Scout "be prepared" should your grandchild truly need you. She only needs you to intervene if there are circumstances that threaten her safety and health. CPS and the Courts are not going to become involved if it is just poor parenting choices. Should she be endangered you will be rested and prepared to provide a safe home...meanwhile try to pretend your daughter is just a neighbor or co-worker. There is no advantage to arguing over parenting methods...just safety. Hugs DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 558098, member: 35"] I have been there done that for many decades in my efforts to protect my two grandsons. When GFGmom gave birth to a daughter I finally realized that I "may" have done too much with her first two children. More importantly I vowed not to lose more decades of my life in attempts to make sure my granddaughter was growing up in a healthy environment. That little girl is now in fouth grade. She truly does not know what "normal living" means...but she is alive and has not been abused. You have worked hard to make progress in your life and for your future. Of course I don't know the whole story but my gut tells me to suggest that you should "detach", focus on your life and like a good Scout "be prepared" should your grandchild truly need you. She only needs you to intervene if there are circumstances that threaten her safety and health. CPS and the Courts are not going to become involved if it is just poor parenting choices. Should she be endangered you will be rested and prepared to provide a safe home...meanwhile try to pretend your daughter is just a neighbor or co-worker. There is no advantage to arguing over parenting methods...just safety. Hugs DDD [/QUOTE]
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