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<blockquote data-quote="pigless in VA" data-source="post: 710459" data-attributes="member: 11832"><p>June, I've broken confidences with SO and kept secrets about Ferb from SO. Either way, someone gets angry with me. That could actually be the reason Ferb is not confiding in me right now. He may mistakenly believe that SO would be furious with him for this affair. I am the one who is furious, but not at Ferb. I am furious at this adult in a position of trust and authority with young adults who is instead preying on them.</p><p></p><p>Copa, it is all about her. Raising her self-esteem. Teaching (cough, cough) the boys about something important. Let's just hope that her goal is not getting pregnant. It occurred to me that might be the goal. </p><p></p><p>Ferb is about 5'3" and about 100 pounds. He appears to be much younger than he actually is. He has an incredibly quick wit and mind. I don't think I posted that he was in a variety show at school. Mrs. X was the sponsor. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/sick.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sick:" title="sick :sick:" data-shortname=":sick:" /> Ferb did a bang up job. He was in several skits and possessed a stage presence that was so incredibly smooth. The boy can act. He told me later he was most proud of all the jokes he had written for the show. It was a great experience for him, and I could tell he had fun doing it. </p><p></p><p>Copa, will you please talk to M for me? Ask him to weigh in. I know that I didn't feel preyed upon by the older men. I felt flattered and empowered by their attention. When I was 17, I had a steady "boyfriend" who was 25 with a 5 year old son. I also "dated" a man who was 33 years old. I didn't understand fully how lopsided the relationships were until I hit the age of 25 and 33. An 18 year old cannot comprehend the disparity in a relationship with an older adult.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="pigless in VA, post: 710459, member: 11832"] June, I've broken confidences with SO and kept secrets about Ferb from SO. Either way, someone gets angry with me. That could actually be the reason Ferb is not confiding in me right now. He may mistakenly believe that SO would be furious with him for this affair. I am the one who is furious, but not at Ferb. I am furious at this adult in a position of trust and authority with young adults who is instead preying on them. Copa, it is all about her. Raising her self-esteem. Teaching (cough, cough) the boys about something important. Let's just hope that her goal is not getting pregnant. It occurred to me that might be the goal. Ferb is about 5'3" and about 100 pounds. He appears to be much younger than he actually is. He has an incredibly quick wit and mind. I don't think I posted that he was in a variety show at school. Mrs. X was the sponsor. :sick: Ferb did a bang up job. He was in several skits and possessed a stage presence that was so incredibly smooth. The boy can act. He told me later he was most proud of all the jokes he had written for the show. It was a great experience for him, and I could tell he had fun doing it. Copa, will you please talk to M for me? Ask him to weigh in. I know that I didn't feel preyed upon by the older men. I felt flattered and empowered by their attention. When I was 17, I had a steady "boyfriend" who was 25 with a 5 year old son. I also "dated" a man who was 33 years old. I didn't understand fully how lopsided the relationships were until I hit the age of 25 and 33. An 18 year old cannot comprehend the disparity in a relationship with an older adult. [/QUOTE]
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