Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
Im tired of her ruining my day !
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 665623" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>soooo tired, I'm so glad you haven't called back.</p><p></p><p>You made a choice. Not to engage.</p><p></p><p>We always have choices. We have choices even with our DCs who drive us nuts.</p><p></p><p>We don't have to engage. We can set boundaries that create physical separation like you did by not calling back. </p><p></p><p>I don't know about you, but there came a day when I decided I was 51% and he was 49%. That was a big day for me.</p><p></p><p>I started protecting myself and deciding that I wanted to live a functional life...even more than that...a happy life...no matter what he decided about his own life. That insight was pivotal for me, and even though there were still many days filled with fear and grief about him, those started getting fewer and fewer and I started to have more and more better days and better times.</p><p></p><p>We're here for you and we want to support you. Please keep posting and let's walk the path together. Warm hugs tonight.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 665623, member: 17542"] soooo tired, I'm so glad you haven't called back. You made a choice. Not to engage. We always have choices. We have choices even with our DCs who drive us nuts. We don't have to engage. We can set boundaries that create physical separation like you did by not calling back. I don't know about you, but there came a day when I decided I was 51% and he was 49%. That was a big day for me. I started protecting myself and deciding that I wanted to live a functional life...even more than that...a happy life...no matter what he decided about his own life. That insight was pivotal for me, and even though there were still many days filled with fear and grief about him, those started getting fewer and fewer and I started to have more and more better days and better times. We're here for you and we want to support you. Please keep posting and let's walk the path together. Warm hugs tonight. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
Im tired of her ruining my day !
Top