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<blockquote data-quote="jbrain" data-source="post: 325086" data-attributes="member: 3450"><p>With some difficult children you just can't let them come home. We let my easy child son live with us but he was starting his own business and working 12-14 hrs a day. It didn't succeed and then he decided on his own he needed a change of scenery and moved to the west coast. He stayed with his difficult child sister and boyfriend who stole his money and took every advantage of him. But, he said, "no more" and got his life together and now has a good job, a nice place to live, and a life he enjoys.</p><p></p><p>My youngest dtr is 18 and I can't imagine ever telling her she couldn't come home. She is grateful for us and our home, no sense of entitlement there.</p><p></p><p>But, difficult child 1, the middle child--I would not allow her to live with us again. She's great at a distance--very respectful, thankful for anything we do for her. I don't think she would even dare ask to come home to live, she knows that is not a possibility. I was very clear when I kicked her out--you will never live here again. </p><p></p><p>Stick to your guns, be tough and you don't have to listen to him after husband tells him he can't live there. Refuse to listen to his complaints, etc.</p><p></p><p>Hugs,</p><p>Jane</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jbrain, post: 325086, member: 3450"] With some difficult children you just can't let them come home. We let my easy child son live with us but he was starting his own business and working 12-14 hrs a day. It didn't succeed and then he decided on his own he needed a change of scenery and moved to the west coast. He stayed with his difficult child sister and boyfriend who stole his money and took every advantage of him. But, he said, "no more" and got his life together and now has a good job, a nice place to live, and a life he enjoys. My youngest dtr is 18 and I can't imagine ever telling her she couldn't come home. She is grateful for us and our home, no sense of entitlement there. But, difficult child 1, the middle child--I would not allow her to live with us again. She's great at a distance--very respectful, thankful for anything we do for her. I don't think she would even dare ask to come home to live, she knows that is not a possibility. I was very clear when I kicked her out--you will never live here again. Stick to your guns, be tough and you don't have to listen to him after husband tells him he can't live there. Refuse to listen to his complaints, etc. Hugs, Jane [/QUOTE]
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