Terry,
Thanks for this great update!!! I'm really proud of you!!! I also, had to learn the hard way that I am in control of my reactions when it comes to dealing with my difficult children. Once I learned that I am in CONTROL of ME, things got much easier. My difficult children don't have the same constant negative impact on me that they used to.
Of course, this is always easier said than done!!! There are times when my emotions get the better of me!!! However, when this happens, I try to correct the situation ASAP - I put on my running shoes first chance I get. For me, lots of exercise seems to work miracles...
Another thing that helps me quite a bit is envisioning what I want my life to be like when my nest is finally empty. While the road to my empty nest is full of bumps, sharp turns, detours, etc..., I am DETERMINED to get there!!! This thought keeps me going in my darkest hours.
Enough about me. You have done an excellent job turning your life around!!! I'm glad that your difficult child has found a sport that he loves. I hope Little League continues to be a positive outlet for your difficult child. It's great when a child finds a sport or hobby that they truly love and you can share in their joy. It's so nice you're playing catch with your difficult child and have found a way to connect with him.
And, like you, I found that medication was a blessing. Until difficult child 1 was medicated, he was impossible to live with. Now, at least, I can tolerate him. I think that medication is necessary in some cirumstances. It can make a world of difference!!!
You have really turned your life around!!! You've also managed to get your husband on the same page as you. You're doing better, your husband is doing better, and I can also see how this has made positive changes in your difficult child too. Way To Go!!! :bravo: WFEN
