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<blockquote data-quote="B&amp;A" data-source="post: 759647" data-attributes="member: 26653"><p>Just took call from prison for the ridiculous fee. Just had my innards ripped out by my son when I said "no" to bailing him out. This is January and his court date is not scheduled until August. His justification for why I should bail him out are "he didn't know he took something that would cause him to fail their drug test" (yeah right), "he still has a job to go to if he could get out "now" (doubt that's true)", "he will pay me back right away" (never has before), if I don't get him out "I don't love him" What kind of Mom would "do this" to her son", "No, don't bother putting Dad on the phone, he "hates" me, he's the reason you won't help me", "if you don't bail me out I will never speak to you or see you again and you have lost your son - is that what you want Mom?" and best of all....."If you don't get me out of here "I'm Going to Kill Myself Tonight"". So staying strong enough to detach is a really, really hard and although I plan to not ever bail him out again as I have done off and on for past 30 years (since he was in his teens) I'm feeling pretty bad right now. I did find a online Nar Anon that I can join. Thanks for listening.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="B&A, post: 759647, member: 26653"] Just took call from prison for the ridiculous fee. Just had my innards ripped out by my son when I said "no" to bailing him out. This is January and his court date is not scheduled until August. His justification for why I should bail him out are "he didn't know he took something that would cause him to fail their drug test" (yeah right), "he still has a job to go to if he could get out "now" (doubt that's true)", "he will pay me back right away" (never has before), if I don't get him out "I don't love him" What kind of Mom would "do this" to her son", "No, don't bother putting Dad on the phone, he "hates" me, he's the reason you won't help me", "if you don't bail me out I will never speak to you or see you again and you have lost your son - is that what you want Mom?" and best of all....."If you don't get me out of here "I'm Going to Kill Myself Tonight"". So staying strong enough to detach is a really, really hard and although I plan to not ever bail him out again as I have done off and on for past 30 years (since he was in his teens) I'm feeling pretty bad right now. I did find a online Nar Anon that I can join. Thanks for listening. [/QUOTE]
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