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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 575652" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Suzir.....can't you just give us a little more of a clue as to where you live? It's driving me crazy!!!! J/K </p><p></p><p>Ok, seriously now. The black thing reminded me of a satanic cult, which does go on here. It really scared me. She was such a dark kid, as far as her moods, and it was really not cool to dress in all black with black makeup smudged all over her eyes...it was cultish looking and often cultish. I'm not religious, and it even scared ME. The boys in her group dressed in black with long black coats and black eye makeup too. It was spooky. They were secretive and very low achievers. How you dress meant something.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Now as my daughter grew older, she went into Cosmotology before she decided to go back to school to become a Pastry Chef. The Cosmotology girls were very flamboyant and my daughter had new hairstyles and new colored hair every day. One Fourth of July, s he dyed her hair the color of our flag. On Halloween, she dyed it orange. Once she got over the black thang, she just wore very flashy colors and managed to make them look good. I had NO problem with that. She is very creative and that was just who she was. </p><p></p><p>But her black black days left a terrible impression both with her normal peers, whom would not hang around with her, and her teachers who didn't like her, although she has always been just a tad below brilliant. People were scared of her group, as I was scared of what the black meant. In general, I really don't tell my kids what to wear to school and for Jumper, my sixteen year old, that's really not an issue anyway since she likes to just wear sports sweat shirts and sweat pants as in "I don't care how I look at this school. The boys in my school are nice, but I'd NEVER go out with them so who cares how I look???" </p><p></p><p>I do think that is you dress almost naked, you have to expect to get hit on in that way. If that's what you want, I guess it's fine...once you are over eighteen and not in my house. In the US, it would still send a very strong message that says, "I'm easy." And teens aren't too smart about contraception, at least not here. I, for one, have no interest in raising a grandchild.</p><p></p><p>Of course, sometimes it's the girl who dresses like the librarian who gets pregnant (wink) <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 575652, member: 1550"] Suzir.....can't you just give us a little more of a clue as to where you live? It's driving me crazy!!!! J/K Ok, seriously now. The black thing reminded me of a satanic cult, which does go on here. It really scared me. She was such a dark kid, as far as her moods, and it was really not cool to dress in all black with black makeup smudged all over her eyes...it was cultish looking and often cultish. I'm not religious, and it even scared ME. The boys in her group dressed in black with long black coats and black eye makeup too. It was spooky. They were secretive and very low achievers. How you dress meant something. Now as my daughter grew older, she went into Cosmotology before she decided to go back to school to become a Pastry Chef. The Cosmotology girls were very flamboyant and my daughter had new hairstyles and new colored hair every day. One Fourth of July, s he dyed her hair the color of our flag. On Halloween, she dyed it orange. Once she got over the black thang, she just wore very flashy colors and managed to make them look good. I had NO problem with that. She is very creative and that was just who she was. But her black black days left a terrible impression both with her normal peers, whom would not hang around with her, and her teachers who didn't like her, although she has always been just a tad below brilliant. People were scared of her group, as I was scared of what the black meant. In general, I really don't tell my kids what to wear to school and for Jumper, my sixteen year old, that's really not an issue anyway since she likes to just wear sports sweat shirts and sweat pants as in "I don't care how I look at this school. The boys in my school are nice, but I'd NEVER go out with them so who cares how I look???" I do think that is you dress almost naked, you have to expect to get hit on in that way. If that's what you want, I guess it's fine...once you are over eighteen and not in my house. In the US, it would still send a very strong message that says, "I'm easy." And teens aren't too smart about contraception, at least not here. I, for one, have no interest in raising a grandchild. Of course, sometimes it's the girl who dresses like the librarian who gets pregnant (wink) :) [/QUOTE]
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