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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 163802" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>It would be best to take them to the counsellor and have CPS involved. CPS is not always wonderful. I openly admit that. BUT if you do NOT get this reported (YOU can report it) then you will face losing your children and possible criminal charges for not reporting. </p><p> </p><p>No matter what anyone else says, this is NOT innocent experimentation and it is NOT something you can handle at home. </p><p> </p><p>The boy clearly thought this out as evidenced by the threat. IF there is a question about whether it happened, or what happened, a specially trained investigator will find out. YOU can't simply because you don't have the training and experience to know if it is true or a lie.</p><p> </p><p>It is time to call in the professionals. I am so very sorry. I know it is scary and painful.</p><p> </p><p>If you are forthright now with CPS it will help greatly if they are ever involved with you again. </p><p> </p><p>The girl will have to deal with this for many years to come. Both the physical sexual abuse and the lesbian threat will have to be dealt with. If you get help NOW it will be so much easier for HER.</p><p> </p><p>And if yo get help NOW for him, you may be able to keep him from becoming a sexual predator. Keeping quiet to keep CPS out of it will only tell him it is OK as long as you don't tell. And you really don't know if it has happened before with the same girl or others. Not all kids tell.</p><p> </p><p>Hugs,</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 163802, member: 1233"] It would be best to take them to the counsellor and have CPS involved. CPS is not always wonderful. I openly admit that. BUT if you do NOT get this reported (YOU can report it) then you will face losing your children and possible criminal charges for not reporting. No matter what anyone else says, this is NOT innocent experimentation and it is NOT something you can handle at home. The boy clearly thought this out as evidenced by the threat. IF there is a question about whether it happened, or what happened, a specially trained investigator will find out. YOU can't simply because you don't have the training and experience to know if it is true or a lie. It is time to call in the professionals. I am so very sorry. I know it is scary and painful. If you are forthright now with CPS it will help greatly if they are ever involved with you again. The girl will have to deal with this for many years to come. Both the physical sexual abuse and the lesbian threat will have to be dealt with. If you get help NOW it will be so much easier for HER. And if yo get help NOW for him, you may be able to keep him from becoming a sexual predator. Keeping quiet to keep CPS out of it will only tell him it is OK as long as you don't tell. And you really don't know if it has happened before with the same girl or others. Not all kids tell. Hugs, [/QUOTE]
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