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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 164205" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>Well, while he may be immature socially, you can't stop the hormone train. Twelve year old boys are pretty aware of their changing bodies, and what makes them feel good. They also have a very good idea that feeling good with a girl is supposed to be even better.</p><p></p><p>It feels a lot like you should stop talking to the girl. She is probably reformulating her story to ease your concerns.</p><p></p><p>Also, while the boy may try this on someone else, and may not, it is very likely that the girl <em>will</em> tell someone else, who will report it. Then you will really be in trouble. I can not advise you strongly enough to make sure that if the therapist doesn't report this, that you do. And if the therapist does report it, you need to be wholeheartedly behind this. CPS is only interested in the safety of the children. If they get so much as an inkling that you repeatedly interviewed the girl and only sent the boy to a therapist, and tried to hide this from them, they will view this as inappropriate parenting of your daughter and you will be in danger of losing her.</p><p></p><p>Sorry. This is a big mess, I know. But it's one you have to face straight on.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 164205, member: 99"] Well, while he may be immature socially, you can't stop the hormone train. Twelve year old boys are pretty aware of their changing bodies, and what makes them feel good. They also have a very good idea that feeling good with a girl is supposed to be even better. It feels a lot like you should stop talking to the girl. She is probably reformulating her story to ease your concerns. Also, while the boy may try this on someone else, and may not, it is very likely that the girl [i]will[/i] tell someone else, who will report it. Then you will really be in trouble. I can not advise you strongly enough to make sure that if the therapist doesn't report this, that you do. And if the therapist does report it, you need to be wholeheartedly behind this. CPS is only interested in the safety of the children. If they get so much as an inkling that you repeatedly interviewed the girl and only sent the boy to a therapist, and tried to hide this from them, they will view this as inappropriate parenting of your daughter and you will be in danger of losing her. Sorry. This is a big mess, I know. But it's one you have to face straight on. [/QUOTE]
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