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<blockquote data-quote="Holliewho" data-source="post: 165539" data-attributes="member: 5426"><p>I know this is late... but I do know that the if a child is exposed to this by another child and they are already trying to fit in they may feel this is another way to fit in. </p><p> </p><p>I also know that if the girl is that yound and knows the boy has problems (or Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD)-not otherwise specified) she may be trying to protect him. Even at 8 she knows the older is protected because of his Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD)/not otherwise specified so she will protect him too. So unfortunately for you she may have changed her story because she has picked up on your stress in this issue. So my advice is that you need to not talk to her about it anymore. Let the counselor explain to her what the issues are and what could happen but that they may not come but that you honestly need the truth. </p><p> </p><p>She knows that at home the husband is in denial and she knows your ultra sensitive. So to be honest neither of you are good candidates to ask. Definitely though she needs therapy. Even if its just one or two meetings. My niece had this happen but it was a boy next door. The police were called in and it spun all the way out of control. Her mom is in denial and now she is 15 and on the pill sleeping around and failing Special Education classes and not showing up for school etc. My brother in law has his own issues so he just follows his wife's lead. He is not her father and feels like he doesnt have a say. Anyways I have also been on this end and because I was afraid of speaking up I think I have issues in that area now. Just ask my hubby... well maybe not... he wont talk because he isnt one to kiss and tell but I know its there.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Holliewho, post: 165539, member: 5426"] I know this is late... but I do know that the if a child is exposed to this by another child and they are already trying to fit in they may feel this is another way to fit in. I also know that if the girl is that yound and knows the boy has problems (or Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD)-not otherwise specified) she may be trying to protect him. Even at 8 she knows the older is protected because of his Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD)/not otherwise specified so she will protect him too. So unfortunately for you she may have changed her story because she has picked up on your stress in this issue. So my advice is that you need to not talk to her about it anymore. Let the counselor explain to her what the issues are and what could happen but that they may not come but that you honestly need the truth. She knows that at home the husband is in denial and she knows your ultra sensitive. So to be honest neither of you are good candidates to ask. Definitely though she needs therapy. Even if its just one or two meetings. My niece had this happen but it was a boy next door. The police were called in and it spun all the way out of control. Her mom is in denial and now she is 15 and on the pill sleeping around and failing Special Education classes and not showing up for school etc. My brother in law has his own issues so he just follows his wife's lead. He is not her father and feels like he doesnt have a say. Anyways I have also been on this end and because I was afraid of speaking up I think I have issues in that area now. Just ask my hubby... well maybe not... he wont talk because he isnt one to kiss and tell but I know its there. [/QUOTE]
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