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Interesting...update on the DEX "situation"
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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 314996" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>"Status quo"... Perfect wording, Witz. </p><p> </p><p>I realize child support is not tied to visitation, but as exMIL keeps pointing out, DEX doesn't have to realize that and she encourages me to hold it over his head if he starts asking for visits...she thinks it will keep him from pushing the issue because he could barely afford a single monthly payment, let alone what they'd take in back support.</p><p> </p><p>Conversly, if he is accepted for the tcm program and the state goes after him for back support, she and I are both fairly certain he will ask for "his rights" because if he has to pay for it, he'll want something out of it, even if he doesn't care one iota about having the kid. While she and you and I know this isn't how it works, its how his mind works...and I pushed back the tcm application this summer until I can get the custody changed so that they <em>won't </em>go after him for back support so that he won't be inclined to "exercise his rights".</p><p> </p><p>I just hope this all happens quickly.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 314996, member: 1848"] "Status quo"... Perfect wording, Witz. I realize child support is not tied to visitation, but as exMIL keeps pointing out, DEX doesn't have to realize that and she encourages me to hold it over his head if he starts asking for visits...she thinks it will keep him from pushing the issue because he could barely afford a single monthly payment, let alone what they'd take in back support. Conversly, if he is accepted for the tcm program and the state goes after him for back support, she and I are both fairly certain he will ask for "his rights" because if he has to pay for it, he'll want something out of it, even if he doesn't care one iota about having the kid. While she and you and I know this isn't how it works, its how his mind works...and I pushed back the tcm application this summer until I can get the custody changed so that they [I]won't [/I]go after him for back support so that he won't be inclined to "exercise his rights". I just hope this all happens quickly. [/QUOTE]
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