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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 517112" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Can you tell us what type of professional diagnosed him? To me he sounds so typical Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD)...I'm surprised they said he isn't one...from the poor communicator to lack of social skills to problems with handwriting and coordination. </p><p></p><p>Anyway, I'm going to offer a possible reason. Obviously, all of us are guessing. We don't and can't know why your son is doing this. Actually therapists can only guess as well. Much of our own reaction probably comes from our own religious and personal moral codes. Here is my .02, for what it's worth.</p><p></p><p>I personally don't think that seeking out this kind of sexual stuff is normal. I also don't think it's that unusual, since a lot of people DO like sex that is not mainstream. It does not mean that he would ever do this to somebody in a nonconsenual way, anymore than viewing porn makes one a rapist. But I'd be very worried about his interest in this, if it were my own child, and I would try to go further in finding out what is wrong. </p><p></p><p>Not all therapists are any good. Has your son ever been evaluated by a neuropsychologist? If not, I totally recommend a fresh eye from a neuropsychologist. Often neuropsychs find things that others miss because their testing is so intensive. Just to be safe, since your son does not tell you what goes on in his head, do keep him away from your daughter and make sure they are not alone. There are also therapists who deal with sexual issues...you may want to try to find one. I really don't think most mainstream therapists will know what to make of this...and probably we don't know either. This is such a touchy issue. We bring our own fears, experiences into it...</p><p></p><p>Keep us posted. Welcome to our board.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 517112, member: 1550"] Can you tell us what type of professional diagnosed him? To me he sounds so typical Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD)...I'm surprised they said he isn't one...from the poor communicator to lack of social skills to problems with handwriting and coordination. Anyway, I'm going to offer a possible reason. Obviously, all of us are guessing. We don't and can't know why your son is doing this. Actually therapists can only guess as well. Much of our own reaction probably comes from our own religious and personal moral codes. Here is my .02, for what it's worth. I personally don't think that seeking out this kind of sexual stuff is normal. I also don't think it's that unusual, since a lot of people DO like sex that is not mainstream. It does not mean that he would ever do this to somebody in a nonconsenual way, anymore than viewing porn makes one a rapist. But I'd be very worried about his interest in this, if it were my own child, and I would try to go further in finding out what is wrong. Not all therapists are any good. Has your son ever been evaluated by a neuropsychologist? If not, I totally recommend a fresh eye from a neuropsychologist. Often neuropsychs find things that others miss because their testing is so intensive. Just to be safe, since your son does not tell you what goes on in his head, do keep him away from your daughter and make sure they are not alone. There are also therapists who deal with sexual issues...you may want to try to find one. I really don't think most mainstream therapists will know what to make of this...and probably we don't know either. This is such a touchy issue. We bring our own fears, experiences into it... Keep us posted. Welcome to our board. [/QUOTE]
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