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<blockquote data-quote="Anna1345" data-source="post: 95329" data-attributes="member: 4292"><p>{{{HUGS}}}} Welcome! I know how hard this must be for you. I fear I am not far behind with Michael. I have no words of wisdom, just some hugs! </p><p></p><p>I do know what does work with my difficult child is to really be consistent. He will not go anywhere. I am one of those that believes in no privacy until you are paying your own rent. I have been known to take doors off of hinges too. I search everything in front of him and while he is gone. He knows I will do it to. In my heart I trust nothing he says. I assume everything is a scheme to get something over on me -- I guess it is a protective measure on my part however it has on 3 occasions prevented him from doing some questionable things. </p><p></p><p>If she is going to be so defiant as to getting violent and the like, then call the cops. And if you need to do it every time, then do it. The idea is you stay completely non confrontational with her even if that means saying nothing. Just block her from leaving the house with your body until the cops come. Doing this 5 or 6 times she will learn very quickly that you are not playing. In addition, it will show your other children that you will not stoop to her screaming and raging level. Hang in there!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Anna1345, post: 95329, member: 4292"] {{{HUGS}}}} Welcome! I know how hard this must be for you. I fear I am not far behind with Michael. I have no words of wisdom, just some hugs! I do know what does work with my difficult child is to really be consistent. He will not go anywhere. I am one of those that believes in no privacy until you are paying your own rent. I have been known to take doors off of hinges too. I search everything in front of him and while he is gone. He knows I will do it to. In my heart I trust nothing he says. I assume everything is a scheme to get something over on me -- I guess it is a protective measure on my part however it has on 3 occasions prevented him from doing some questionable things. If she is going to be so defiant as to getting violent and the like, then call the cops. And if you need to do it every time, then do it. The idea is you stay completely non confrontational with her even if that means saying nothing. Just block her from leaving the house with your body until the cops come. Doing this 5 or 6 times she will learn very quickly that you are not playing. In addition, it will show your other children that you will not stoop to her screaming and raging level. Hang in there! [/QUOTE]
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