If he has fetal alcohol spectrum disorder, the best you can do is to watch him carefully because these children do not really understand cause and effect. They need a lot of hands on all of their lives. Being in an adoptive parent group, I've known many people with children who have this syndrome. If that's in the picture, then it's the biggest part of the picture because it is brain damage. I really hate when mothers drink when they are pregnant. This is totally preventable.
It doesn't help that he was tossed around when he was young.
Poor kid :<
