Thank you for the feedback MidwestMom and Albatross. I am not sure how to create a new thread but will take some time later to look into it.
So far, she does not have a substance abuse problem. She has been prescribed Prozac and Abilify but was not taking regularly at home and it wasn't helping much. We tried to apply for disability but were denied and now I can't get her to go and reapply since the situation has escalated. Everything I try to do to help has been met with resistance and I can't seem to talk to her logically any more. I have given her the numbers etc to MHMR and am hoping that she will find someone now that will be able to direct her where she needs to go.
It just helps to know I am not alone, that there are mothers who love their children with all their heart but have run out of options. Thank you all.