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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 603459" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi there. I'm very sorry you are having so much trouble.</p><p></p><p> Can you give us some back ground on your daughter? It's hard to just jump in there and give you any advice without knowing some history. What was s he like as an infant, toddler, in school? When did she start having trouble? Are you divorced? Sounds like she barely knows her father. What has been her diagnosis? Any medications? Anything you can share will be helpful! </p><p></p><p>One bit of advice right off the bat. This is YOUR child. The rest of your family doesn't get to chime in about what YOU should do. They don't live with her and hearing their chit chat is distracting and makes you feel guilty. If you have a difficult family that likes to put in their .02, you may want to detach from them for now or cut off all talk of your daughter to them and make sure they know it's an off limits topic. It doesn't help to have Sis, grandfather, aunt, kissing cousin, teacher, friend, enemy etc. telling YOU what to do with your child and making you feel guilty. Tune them out. They don't have a clue. They don't live with her. You are a young mom, which is fine, but I'm guessing Sister is young and still growing up. Her opinions are stereotypical...she doesn't live with stuff like this.</p><p></p><p>You have tiny children. IF your daughter is violent towards them OR to ANYONE she *should* live away from home for everyone's safety including hers. How did she get this way and who diagnosed her?</p><p></p><p>Welcome to the board, but so sorry you have to be here. Many here have been through or are going through life with a violent child.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 603459, member: 1550"] Hi there. I'm very sorry you are having so much trouble. Can you give us some back ground on your daughter? It's hard to just jump in there and give you any advice without knowing some history. What was s he like as an infant, toddler, in school? When did she start having trouble? Are you divorced? Sounds like she barely knows her father. What has been her diagnosis? Any medications? Anything you can share will be helpful! One bit of advice right off the bat. This is YOUR child. The rest of your family doesn't get to chime in about what YOU should do. They don't live with her and hearing their chit chat is distracting and makes you feel guilty. If you have a difficult family that likes to put in their .02, you may want to detach from them for now or cut off all talk of your daughter to them and make sure they know it's an off limits topic. It doesn't help to have Sis, grandfather, aunt, kissing cousin, teacher, friend, enemy etc. telling YOU what to do with your child and making you feel guilty. Tune them out. They don't have a clue. They don't live with her. You are a young mom, which is fine, but I'm guessing Sister is young and still growing up. Her opinions are stereotypical...she doesn't live with stuff like this. You have tiny children. IF your daughter is violent towards them OR to ANYONE she *should* live away from home for everyone's safety including hers. How did she get this way and who diagnosed her? Welcome to the board, but so sorry you have to be here. Many here have been through or are going through life with a violent child. [/QUOTE]
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