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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 726421" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>in my opinion you are not obligated to do this. Ten days is a long time. If you have to lock everything up because he may steal...that is no way to live. Not even for ten days.</p><p></p><p>On an adoption site some parents(not experts, but an interesting thread) were surmising that RADis just like ASPD. The symptoms are the same. Lack of boundaries, people are not important, good actors, and willingness to hurt others physically, emotionally, financially, some of that, all of that etc</p><p></p><p>At least the other two are okay Russia is known for horrible orphanages, Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) and fetal alcohol spectrum disorders. If I wanted to adopt today it would be an infant from a country with foster homes, like Korea. One of my sweet kids is from that situation. Her foster mom carried her on her back and my daughter was with her until she came to us. She easily attached to us. Two others did too. Then there was the six year old from an asian orphanage and the 11 year old from foster care who were both very damaged.</p><p></p><p>Good luck!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 726421, member: 1550"] in my opinion you are not obligated to do this. Ten days is a long time. If you have to lock everything up because he may steal...that is no way to live. Not even for ten days. On an adoption site some parents(not experts, but an interesting thread) were surmising that RADis just like ASPD. The symptoms are the same. Lack of boundaries, people are not important, good actors, and willingness to hurt others physically, emotionally, financially, some of that, all of that etc At least the other two are okay Russia is known for horrible orphanages, Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) and fetal alcohol spectrum disorders. If I wanted to adopt today it would be an infant from a country with foster homes, like Korea. One of my sweet kids is from that situation. Her foster mom carried her on her back and my daughter was with her until she came to us. She easily attached to us. Two others did too. Then there was the six year old from an asian orphanage and the 11 year old from foster care who were both very damaged. Good luck! [/QUOTE]
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