Lila, welcome. You've been thru so much, I too admire your strength and resilience and the support you have offered your step son.
I have no answers at all, I have no experience with what you're dealing with. All I can say is, we are here for you, you're not alone and we'll do what we do best here....circle the wagons around you and offer you our best support.
Keep posting, it helps to write it and have others who understand receive it with the care it deserves.
