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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 749397" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>This is my opinion from my own experiences only. You cant be a bad mother anymore because your son is an adult who does not need a parent to care for him. I am not berating you. I did it myself and I could kick myself for it. I feel it crippled my daughter more than she would have been crippled had her father and I not paid for her life for 30 years. </p><p></p><p>Our kids are able bodied adults. They have nobody but themselves to blame if they dont have money. Belatedly, my husband and I are no longer financially contributing to our daughter's life. I think we made a mistake paying Kay and Lee's bills. I gave them money for gas too. Heck, we bought them cars. I feel very foolish now. I can suggest not comparing yourself now to the parent you had to be when your son was ten. </p><p></p><p>My husband and I are on vacation and have let it all out to one another about our daughter. One thing we discussed was that she is not a loving daughter. Is your son a good, loving son? </p><p></p><p>Anyhow I hope you can figure it out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 749397, member: 23706"] This is my opinion from my own experiences only. You cant be a bad mother anymore because your son is an adult who does not need a parent to care for him. I am not berating you. I did it myself and I could kick myself for it. I feel it crippled my daughter more than she would have been crippled had her father and I not paid for her life for 30 years. Our kids are able bodied adults. They have nobody but themselves to blame if they dont have money. Belatedly, my husband and I are no longer financially contributing to our daughter's life. I think we made a mistake paying Kay and Lee's bills. I gave them money for gas too. Heck, we bought them cars. I feel very foolish now. I can suggest not comparing yourself now to the parent you had to be when your son was ten. My husband and I are on vacation and have let it all out to one another about our daughter. One thing we discussed was that she is not a loving daughter. Is your son a good, loving son? Anyhow I hope you can figure it out. [/QUOTE]
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