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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 112444" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>I am SO spoiled... so I think all men should step up just like we would if the roles were reversed!!!</p><p>If it was us i.e. a woman... sorry to all the men on the board!!! We would most likely go to work and OMG come home make dinner clean up take care of the kids clean up some more etc... all of that fun stuff... before even thinking about ourselves. </p><p>If there were a husband involved, and he were hurt, we would add him in to that equation.</p><p></p><p>Granted I try to make life easy on husband when possible, like now with my foot, if we can use paper plates, utensils etc. I even broke down and let him get GAG, fast food... we never eat fast food. </p><p></p><p>Sure my floor is filthy, I can't stand it!!! But I ask him to do the dishes... I know I can do SO much more than you though, it is just my foot.</p><p></p><p>I do what I can and leave the rest for now!!! I make the girls clean what they can... husband must help this is his home... his family, our stuff, I have slowly drilled it into him that we all need to have pride in our home... who wants to live in a pigstye! </p><p></p><p>I know most men don't care... but we have to keep trying!!! husband didn't until he met me, he saw me cry one too many times over it!!! </p><p>He realized it made my anxiety worse, my mania worse... so he helps!!! </p><p>So simple!!! </p><p></p><p>I do so hope you start feeling better, I hope your husband realizes it will make HIS life better if you are HAPPIER!!! </p><p>Happy Mom/Wife=Happy Home... So simple... </p><p></p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 112444, member: 3155"] I am SO spoiled... so I think all men should step up just like we would if the roles were reversed!!! If it was us i.e. a woman... sorry to all the men on the board!!! We would most likely go to work and OMG come home make dinner clean up take care of the kids clean up some more etc... all of that fun stuff... before even thinking about ourselves. If there were a husband involved, and he were hurt, we would add him in to that equation. Granted I try to make life easy on husband when possible, like now with my foot, if we can use paper plates, utensils etc. I even broke down and let him get GAG, fast food... we never eat fast food. Sure my floor is filthy, I can't stand it!!! But I ask him to do the dishes... I know I can do SO much more than you though, it is just my foot. I do what I can and leave the rest for now!!! I make the girls clean what they can... husband must help this is his home... his family, our stuff, I have slowly drilled it into him that we all need to have pride in our home... who wants to live in a pigstye! I know most men don't care... but we have to keep trying!!! husband didn't until he met me, he saw me cry one too many times over it!!! He realized it made my anxiety worse, my mania worse... so he helps!!! So simple!!! I do so hope you start feeling better, I hope your husband realizes it will make HIS life better if you are HAPPIER!!! Happy Mom/Wife=Happy Home... So simple... Hugs [/QUOTE]
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