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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 746690" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Did biethmother use drugs or drink while pregnant? This is huge. Sonic's birthmother did and it harmed him.</p><p></p><p>Does he ever say he wants to meet his birthmother? That helps sometimes if they resolve some identity issues. Maybe there are siblings....anyone he can see himself in. Facebook makes it easy. Goneboy found his soblings and birthmom on FB and flew out ro meet them. I hope it helped him because he often said he wanted to be better than "just an orpham" which is how they viewed children without parents (biological) in Hong kong. It affected him deeply. He was six when we got him and never felt comfortable. He married a woman frim China and from what I hear they live a culrurally Chinese life.</p><p></p><p>I have offered to help Princess search but so far she is afraid and this is huge..she has to do it when ready. Her birthmom and possible bio siblings are in Korea. Sonic has no issues and doesnt want to know. Jumper has texted her lovely borthmom and seen pictures of her half bio sib brothers but so far thehy havent met. Seeing who she looks like and seeing B text that she loves her really helped Jumper. She is . not stuck in the who am I hell some adoptees are stuck in.</p><p></p><p>Just a few thougjts. Take them with a grain of salt.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 746690, member: 1550"] Did biethmother use drugs or drink while pregnant? This is huge. Sonic's birthmother did and it harmed him. Does he ever say he wants to meet his birthmother? That helps sometimes if they resolve some identity issues. Maybe there are siblings....anyone he can see himself in. Facebook makes it easy. Goneboy found his soblings and birthmom on FB and flew out ro meet them. I hope it helped him because he often said he wanted to be better than "just an orpham" which is how they viewed children without parents (biological) in Hong kong. It affected him deeply. He was six when we got him and never felt comfortable. He married a woman frim China and from what I hear they live a culrurally Chinese life. I have offered to help Princess search but so far she is afraid and this is huge..she has to do it when ready. Her birthmom and possible bio siblings are in Korea. Sonic has no issues and doesnt want to know. Jumper has texted her lovely borthmom and seen pictures of her half bio sib brothers but so far thehy havent met. Seeing who she looks like and seeing B text that she loves her really helped Jumper. She is . not stuck in the who am I hell some adoptees are stuck in. Just a few thougjts. Take them with a grain of salt. [/QUOTE]
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