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<blockquote data-quote="mof" data-source="post: 698289" data-attributes="member: 20533"><p>Hello,</p><p></p><p>Thank you for asking after me. </p><p></p><p>Well...he back. We had a nice birthday dinner...I was guarded, but really no reason except own.</p><p></p><p>Sister: the main reason our son is home we felt it is the right thing...we could no longer afford a sober living home who gives no support...we felt therapy and a doctor to monitor things are things he needs. There are others..</p><p></p><p>So...we talked a lot...here's a statement...I know I'm messed up cause I'm 20 and had to move home with my parents, I can't take care of myself.....there it was.</p><p></p><p>We talked a bit about goals...but didn't get into anything heavy...trying to go slow. He has a list of things to complete today...he definitely does not have Tim ed management skills.</p><p></p><p>He mentioned an online group he talks to and supports others...I inwardly Laughed.</p><p></p><p>I am cautious...there was a tender moment where he helped one of his brothers with his geometry homework...I was shocked he knew it! Maybe there are. brain cells left after all.</p><p></p><p>I'm trying not to be a nagging, controlling, not to do things he can handle himself.</p><p></p><p>His counselor said under no terms should he ever tell us about his past...seriously scary and dark. Amazing...in months.</p><p></p><p>He is not the child I once raised...nor the man I imagined...it is what it is.</p><p></p><p>I'm trying...he is...we all are. His wish when he blew out his candle is he hopes he doesn't miss his parents off too much....gee, I love you too! Lol</p><p></p><p>I pray God keeps speaking to us through others!</p><p></p><p>I'm sure I will be posting regularly! Ugh</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mof, post: 698289, member: 20533"] Hello, Thank you for asking after me. Well...he back. We had a nice birthday dinner...I was guarded, but really no reason except own. Sister: the main reason our son is home we felt it is the right thing...we could no longer afford a sober living home who gives no support...we felt therapy and a doctor to monitor things are things he needs. There are others.. So...we talked a lot...here's a statement...I know I'm messed up cause I'm 20 and had to move home with my parents, I can't take care of myself.....there it was. We talked a bit about goals...but didn't get into anything heavy...trying to go slow. He has a list of things to complete today...he definitely does not have Tim ed management skills. He mentioned an online group he talks to and supports others...I inwardly Laughed. I am cautious...there was a tender moment where he helped one of his brothers with his geometry homework...I was shocked he knew it! Maybe there are. brain cells left after all. I'm trying not to be a nagging, controlling, not to do things he can handle himself. His counselor said under no terms should he ever tell us about his past...seriously scary and dark. Amazing...in months. He is not the child I once raised...nor the man I imagined...it is what it is. I'm trying...he is...we all are. His wish when he blew out his candle is he hopes he doesn't miss his parents off too much....gee, I love you too! Lol I pray God keeps speaking to us through others! I'm sure I will be posting regularly! Ugh [/QUOTE]
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