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<blockquote data-quote="WearyMom18" data-source="post: 651641" data-attributes="member: 18856"><p>Quick update and I'm writing this as I fight crying at work! </p><p></p><p>She sent me a text saying 'What do you want' and I didn't respond. She called my phone twice in a row and I did not answer while gritting my teeth and sitting on my hands to keep myself from taking the call. Then she text and asked for her bail bondsman name and phone number for the millionth time!!!!! I felt a little snap in my head and decided I was going to end it. I wrote her a text as follows:</p><p></p><p>Final message: I love you and always will and I believe that you can turn your life around. I wish you the best and hope that one day we can have a relationship that is free of drugs and cussing and disrespect and legal problems. You're now an adult and can make your own decisions and make your life whatever you want. You're smart and beautiful and so capable of doing whatever you want. Our relationship is not healthy for either of us and based on several of your choices I cannot be involved anymore to protect myself, my home and belongings and enjoy my life again. good luck with your job, I know you can do very well if you put ur mind to it. Handle your relationships with care and respect so they will last. Love, Mom</p><p></p><p>Was this a mistake? I'm panicking a bit because I'm afraid I'll never hear from her again and also wondering if I should have just ignored the text! I felt the need to give our situation some finality which I hope will make it clear that she is now on her own. Grrr, life is sure complicated.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WearyMom18, post: 651641, member: 18856"] Quick update and I'm writing this as I fight crying at work! She sent me a text saying 'What do you want' and I didn't respond. She called my phone twice in a row and I did not answer while gritting my teeth and sitting on my hands to keep myself from taking the call. Then she text and asked for her bail bondsman name and phone number for the millionth time!!!!! I felt a little snap in my head and decided I was going to end it. I wrote her a text as follows: Final message: I love you and always will and I believe that you can turn your life around. I wish you the best and hope that one day we can have a relationship that is free of drugs and cussing and disrespect and legal problems. You're now an adult and can make your own decisions and make your life whatever you want. You're smart and beautiful and so capable of doing whatever you want. Our relationship is not healthy for either of us and based on several of your choices I cannot be involved anymore to protect myself, my home and belongings and enjoy my life again. good luck with your job, I know you can do very well if you put ur mind to it. Handle your relationships with care and respect so they will last. Love, Mom Was this a mistake? I'm panicking a bit because I'm afraid I'll never hear from her again and also wondering if I should have just ignored the text! I felt the need to give our situation some finality which I hope will make it clear that she is now on her own. Grrr, life is sure complicated. [/QUOTE]
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