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<blockquote data-quote="PonyGirl65" data-source="post: 684762" data-attributes="member: 20087"><p>Why is he afraid to be alone? Well, I think the answer to that is......Entitlement. He wants someone to care for him. He doesn't want to be alone. He knows (somewhere, secretly) that he can't take care of himself. (Yes, even tho was "was" doing that, before the fire....sorta) And instead of facing those fears and taking steps to change them (which he ALSO doesn't know how to do) he turns the fear outward.</p><p></p><p>Blam! You are in the direct line of fire.</p><p></p><p>And he sees your sympathy and desperation. And that scares him, too. Which just gels into anger. Cuz, anger is much easier to deal with than fear.</p><p></p><p>And.........this is all just my very humble opinion. I could be totally wrong.</p><p></p><p>I don't have the answers. I do think it's smart to detach, and try your best at modeling responsible behavior. Hard as it must be, I would do my best to NOT engage in any pity parties, OR in any shouting matches.</p><p></p><p>You guys are all in my thoughts!!</p><p></p><p>Peace</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PonyGirl65, post: 684762, member: 20087"] Why is he afraid to be alone? Well, I think the answer to that is......Entitlement. He wants someone to care for him. He doesn't want to be alone. He knows (somewhere, secretly) that he can't take care of himself. (Yes, even tho was "was" doing that, before the fire....sorta) And instead of facing those fears and taking steps to change them (which he ALSO doesn't know how to do) he turns the fear outward. Blam! You are in the direct line of fire. And he sees your sympathy and desperation. And that scares him, too. Which just gels into anger. Cuz, anger is much easier to deal with than fear. And.........this is all just my very humble opinion. I could be totally wrong. I don't have the answers. I do think it's smart to detach, and try your best at modeling responsible behavior. Hard as it must be, I would do my best to NOT engage in any pity parties, OR in any shouting matches. You guys are all in my thoughts!! Peace [/QUOTE]
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