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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 377891" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>ML - Hey, i'm sorry i missed this..... i'm still getting used to this place it's different lol.</p><p> </p><p>i know how you feel i think the same soo often, you aren't alone. Yet dont' kid yourself your doing the best you can and it isnt' always easy. I too look towards the future, way too often think of how will this work or that with-her, how will she survive have a life etc...</p><p> </p><p>than i have to put the brakes on, deep breath and basically tell myself live in today, not tmrw or yesterday just in today.</p><p> </p><p>you can't fight every battle and win. you just can't you would be gone and buried lol. it's way too consuming. i'm sorry husband is in a mood iv'e been there too it's like you feel like your screwed if you do and screwed if you dont' scenario not fair at all.</p><p> </p><p>i dont' normally push difficult child into social situations playdate etc. if its'a group thing i will tell her she needs to go if its' a family get together. takes her 3 hours to warm up than we're leaving lol. can you make a wii schedule for him to follow as opposed to open game time?? that might help a little bit.</p><p> </p><p>just a thought have you had a medication check lately, could it be a medication side effect or is this the regular run of the mill behavior? i find their biochemical make up does change with-the influx of that wonderful hormonal surge and re evaluating medications helps around this pre puberty time for us. than again hey i want medications and cant' find a pyschiatrist for difficult child lol.</p><p> </p><p>you never want to create negativity surrounding a social interaction. i find with difficult child if i push too hard it's a negative experience and she attaches that to the overall social interaction getting out of comfort zone thing. </p><p> </p><p>ok i will pm if i can think of anything usefull,d i'm just waiting out difficult child again to go to bed.</p><p> </p><p>hoping your well and ok,,</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 377891, member: 4514"] ML - Hey, i'm sorry i missed this..... i'm still getting used to this place it's different lol. i know how you feel i think the same soo often, you aren't alone. Yet dont' kid yourself your doing the best you can and it isnt' always easy. I too look towards the future, way too often think of how will this work or that with-her, how will she survive have a life etc... than i have to put the brakes on, deep breath and basically tell myself live in today, not tmrw or yesterday just in today. you can't fight every battle and win. you just can't you would be gone and buried lol. it's way too consuming. i'm sorry husband is in a mood iv'e been there too it's like you feel like your screwed if you do and screwed if you dont' scenario not fair at all. i dont' normally push difficult child into social situations playdate etc. if its'a group thing i will tell her she needs to go if its' a family get together. takes her 3 hours to warm up than we're leaving lol. can you make a wii schedule for him to follow as opposed to open game time?? that might help a little bit. just a thought have you had a medication check lately, could it be a medication side effect or is this the regular run of the mill behavior? i find their biochemical make up does change with-the influx of that wonderful hormonal surge and re evaluating medications helps around this pre puberty time for us. than again hey i want medications and cant' find a pyschiatrist for difficult child lol. you never want to create negativity surrounding a social interaction. i find with difficult child if i push too hard it's a negative experience and she attaches that to the overall social interaction getting out of comfort zone thing. ok i will pm if i can think of anything usefull,d i'm just waiting out difficult child again to go to bed. hoping your well and ok,, [/QUOTE]
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