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It still hurts......He's my blood.
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<blockquote data-quote="1000sunsets" data-source="post: 599844" data-attributes="member: 16512"><p>Tiredof33,</p><p>Your situation is so simialr to ours with our son. I am so glad to be on this site to be able to receive support and advise from so many wonderful people. I have always believed that things happen for a reason. Eventhough sometimes it is hard to comprehend why they happen. My son and his wife have always fought since the day they met because she is also so jealous, possessive, demanding, etc.......He also has lost association with his friends and has none or else he wouldn't be homeless. He texed me yesterday saying he had not bathe in 3 weeks and was starving and also has contracted poison ivy from somewhere and was very desperate. He thinks I am still working out of town and he asked if I could rent him the cheapest hotel I could. Again, I had to swallow the hurt and declined to answer back and erased the text message. I know that if i were to see him in the streets I would still be very hurt but would have to reach for all my strength to turn away. I am tired of all of it just like you and others. I told me son (the beginning of the year when I last talked to him) that I am 60 years old and his mother and I should be taking it easy and enjoying life instead of trying to support him. It is true that the detachment process is not so easy and one has to reach for strength from deep inside, continue to pray, and gain support and comfort from this site. I pray that you and your family can rise with comfort and joy and begin to enjoy the rest of your lives. God Bless.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="1000sunsets, post: 599844, member: 16512"] Tiredof33, Your situation is so simialr to ours with our son. I am so glad to be on this site to be able to receive support and advise from so many wonderful people. I have always believed that things happen for a reason. Eventhough sometimes it is hard to comprehend why they happen. My son and his wife have always fought since the day they met because she is also so jealous, possessive, demanding, etc.......He also has lost association with his friends and has none or else he wouldn't be homeless. He texed me yesterday saying he had not bathe in 3 weeks and was starving and also has contracted poison ivy from somewhere and was very desperate. He thinks I am still working out of town and he asked if I could rent him the cheapest hotel I could. Again, I had to swallow the hurt and declined to answer back and erased the text message. I know that if i were to see him in the streets I would still be very hurt but would have to reach for all my strength to turn away. I am tired of all of it just like you and others. I told me son (the beginning of the year when I last talked to him) that I am 60 years old and his mother and I should be taking it easy and enjoying life instead of trying to support him. It is true that the detachment process is not so easy and one has to reach for strength from deep inside, continue to pray, and gain support and comfort from this site. I pray that you and your family can rise with comfort and joy and begin to enjoy the rest of your lives. God Bless. [/QUOTE]
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