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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 504004" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Sorry, I was not saying you were suggesting that... I was just saying what I was thinking about their comments at the meeting, how I feel about the whole situation. My mind is kind of just venting thoughts, and I truly appreciated what you said. I have no problem leaving him with the teachers. I also still have my Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) workers and can opt to add days. </p><p></p><p>I am going to do the same things..... I will stay and observe the entire day. His psychiatric is coming at one point too and the lawyer is coming at another time. They said this is a "new" program born out of their old one which is for lower functioning kids. (meaning non verbal, I hate the low functioning term) It is still IN the EBD school and they can say they isolate them as much as they want, but there are bussing, hallway, lunch etc. times. As of last summer they told me I would never be looking there because it is not the right place for Q so that is why I am suspicious that they now dont want him one place, have no where better so are suddenly saying this NOW is a good choice for a kid like him. I am not that easy to fool anymore..... I will go see though and if it IS a good option i will thank God in Heaven.</p><p></p><p>He is super vulnerable to following any other child's lead. It is the only way he connects to people in fact, he does what they want or say or do. </p><p></p><p>I probably have a bigger issue because I have already been down this road several times and my trust in them when I observed and enrolled my kid was too great. I let my son get abused because I was new to the fight. I dont blame myself but I do take responsibility for knowing better now. If he had an emotional disturbance driving this or was willfully being naughty, I would say PLEASE put him in an EBD setting. But in the four times he has been mixed in with EBD kids, we have come out with bigger problems than we went in with. So, if putting the energy into him for the next 4.5 years means a lifetime of better options, I am totally willing to do that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 504004, member: 12886"] Sorry, I was not saying you were suggesting that... I was just saying what I was thinking about their comments at the meeting, how I feel about the whole situation. My mind is kind of just venting thoughts, and I truly appreciated what you said. I have no problem leaving him with the teachers. I also still have my Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) workers and can opt to add days. I am going to do the same things..... I will stay and observe the entire day. His psychiatric is coming at one point too and the lawyer is coming at another time. They said this is a "new" program born out of their old one which is for lower functioning kids. (meaning non verbal, I hate the low functioning term) It is still IN the EBD school and they can say they isolate them as much as they want, but there are bussing, hallway, lunch etc. times. As of last summer they told me I would never be looking there because it is not the right place for Q so that is why I am suspicious that they now dont want him one place, have no where better so are suddenly saying this NOW is a good choice for a kid like him. I am not that easy to fool anymore..... I will go see though and if it IS a good option i will thank God in Heaven. He is super vulnerable to following any other child's lead. It is the only way he connects to people in fact, he does what they want or say or do. I probably have a bigger issue because I have already been down this road several times and my trust in them when I observed and enrolled my kid was too great. I let my son get abused because I was new to the fight. I dont blame myself but I do take responsibility for knowing better now. If he had an emotional disturbance driving this or was willfully being naughty, I would say PLEASE put him in an EBD setting. But in the four times he has been mixed in with EBD kids, we have come out with bigger problems than we went in with. So, if putting the energy into him for the next 4.5 years means a lifetime of better options, I am totally willing to do that. [/QUOTE]
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