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It's A New Week, Mikey...How's It Going?
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<blockquote data-quote="jbrain" data-source="post: 61467" data-attributes="member: 3450"><p>Mikey,</p><p>I am so sorry about how bad things have gotten and I hate to see you taking all the blame. You know what? I am really angry at your wife about now, wish you could muster up some anger too. This is not all your fault--you and wife had blinders on for a long time and now the blinders are off for you but hers are still on. Yes, you have made mistakes in handling this situation--all of us have, we never signed up for this and we have to learn as we go. </p><p></p><p>I think maybe the problem is you rushed in to fix things (like a good husband will want to do) but she didn't like any of the solutions once she got over being so angry about what McWeedy did. Now she is mad at you instead--you took her at her word that she wanted him out but she only said that in a fit of anger. I think your wife expects you to read her mind and know what she wants from minute to minute--she shouldn't have to actually tell you!</p><p></p><p>So, I have no advice really, but want to offer support and to say that I think it is good you can come here to "blog" if that is helpful. </p><p></p><p>Hugs,</p><p>Jane</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jbrain, post: 61467, member: 3450"] Mikey, I am so sorry about how bad things have gotten and I hate to see you taking all the blame. You know what? I am really angry at your wife about now, wish you could muster up some anger too. This is not all your fault--you and wife had blinders on for a long time and now the blinders are off for you but hers are still on. Yes, you have made mistakes in handling this situation--all of us have, we never signed up for this and we have to learn as we go. I think maybe the problem is you rushed in to fix things (like a good husband will want to do) but she didn't like any of the solutions once she got over being so angry about what McWeedy did. Now she is mad at you instead--you took her at her word that she wanted him out but she only said that in a fit of anger. I think your wife expects you to read her mind and know what she wants from minute to minute--she shouldn't have to actually tell you! So, I have no advice really, but want to offer support and to say that I think it is good you can come here to "blog" if that is helpful. Hugs, Jane [/QUOTE]
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