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It's A New Week, Mikey...How's It Going?
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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 61590" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>I am sorry about Sarge.</p><p></p><p>I am also sorry about wife.</p><p></p><p>Mikey if you don't listen to anything else that is said on this board, I hope this sinks in.</p><p></p><p>Your son is 17 ~ YOU are responsible for his actions. </p><p></p><p>The juvie system is crowded EVERYWHERE. You need to file a CHINS (children in need of supervision)</p><p></p><p>1 ~ if you are taken to court for damages he has caused, at least you sought help and it will show</p><p></p><p>2 ~ it will give him a probation officer to answer to, not you, not wife, but a court officer.</p><p></p><p>Mikey you can only do this NOW, after he is 18 he will be considered an adult.</p><p></p><p></p><p>You have allowed your son to rule your house. What is going on now is proof of that.</p><p></p><p>MOST all of us have been there. If polled I bet many of us have looked a divorce in the eye. </p><p></p><p>This is what happens when an addict runs amuck in a family, the family is destroyed and the addict moves on to destroy something else.</p><p></p><p>My strength came from my easy child, she deserved a safe and loving home.</p><p></p><p>Pull your bootstraps up and take a look at wife and easy child and take your family back.</p><p></p><p>Your son is an addict, he cannot stop or change his ways until he WANTS to. You can not change that you can only change your reactions to him.</p><p></p><p>I know you have read many harsh sounding posts. It is very frustrating for everyone to keep telling you something over and over and you make excuses for it all.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry for Sarge, but him being in China there is nothing any of you could do about that tonight. Your marriage and your son's life was resting on the family session tonight ~ I believe I would have kept my appointment.</p><p></p><p>You have got to see this for what it is.</p><p></p><p>If you think he is not bringing stuff in your house, you are mistaken. He doesn't care!!! </p><p></p><p>Your easy child is there, doesn't she deserve better? </p><p></p><p>My difficult child and easy child were as close as siblings could be, when he was high, he didn't care if his sister saw what he had.</p><p></p><p>An addict ONLY cares about getting high. not what or who he is hurting.</p><p></p><p>He is not hearing anything you are saying ~ he has it good and he just puts up with your mouth till the next trip</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 61590, member: 2389"] I am sorry about Sarge. I am also sorry about wife. Mikey if you don't listen to anything else that is said on this board, I hope this sinks in. Your son is 17 ~ YOU are responsible for his actions. The juvie system is crowded EVERYWHERE. You need to file a CHINS (children in need of supervision) 1 ~ if you are taken to court for damages he has caused, at least you sought help and it will show 2 ~ it will give him a probation officer to answer to, not you, not wife, but a court officer. Mikey you can only do this NOW, after he is 18 he will be considered an adult. You have allowed your son to rule your house. What is going on now is proof of that. MOST all of us have been there. If polled I bet many of us have looked a divorce in the eye. This is what happens when an addict runs amuck in a family, the family is destroyed and the addict moves on to destroy something else. My strength came from my easy child, she deserved a safe and loving home. Pull your bootstraps up and take a look at wife and easy child and take your family back. Your son is an addict, he cannot stop or change his ways until he WANTS to. You can not change that you can only change your reactions to him. I know you have read many harsh sounding posts. It is very frustrating for everyone to keep telling you something over and over and you make excuses for it all. I am sorry for Sarge, but him being in China there is nothing any of you could do about that tonight. Your marriage and your son's life was resting on the family session tonight ~ I believe I would have kept my appointment. You have got to see this for what it is. If you think he is not bringing stuff in your house, you are mistaken. He doesn't care!!! Your easy child is there, doesn't she deserve better? My difficult child and easy child were as close as siblings could be, when he was high, he didn't care if his sister saw what he had. An addict ONLY cares about getting high. not what or who he is hurting. He is not hearing anything you are saying ~ he has it good and he just puts up with your mouth till the next trip [/QUOTE]
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