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<blockquote data-quote="AppleCori" data-source="post: 679198" data-attributes="member: 16024"><p>Hi SoH,</p><p></p><p>So, your hubby wants SS to come live with you?</p><p></p><p>Does he have an actual plan in place for how he is going to deal with/change the son's behaviors? Has he really thought this out?</p><p></p><p>I would have an in-depth talk with hubby about what may actually help this young man and how this can be accomplished. I know he loves his son, but that does not mean that he is equipped to deal with his son's very difficult behaviors. And there are only four short years before this boy is an adult, and you will have no power to get him the help he so desperately needs. Ask hubby how this young man will support himself as an adult when he is not getting an education now, and is not learning life skills and appropriate behaviors and social norms. He is getting more and more behind and needs to get caught up so he can become a normal, functioning adult soon. The adult world is not very forgiving or accommodating of deviant behaviors, and he is on a dead end road with only one destination, and it is not pretty.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry for you and your step-son.</p><p></p><p>Stay with us.</p><p></p><p>Apple</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AppleCori, post: 679198, member: 16024"] Hi SoH, So, your hubby wants SS to come live with you? Does he have an actual plan in place for how he is going to deal with/change the son's behaviors? Has he really thought this out? I would have an in-depth talk with hubby about what may actually help this young man and how this can be accomplished. I know he loves his son, but that does not mean that he is equipped to deal with his son's very difficult behaviors. And there are only four short years before this boy is an adult, and you will have no power to get him the help he so desperately needs. Ask hubby how this young man will support himself as an adult when he is not getting an education now, and is not learning life skills and appropriate behaviors and social norms. He is getting more and more behind and needs to get caught up so he can become a normal, functioning adult soon. The adult world is not very forgiving or accommodating of deviant behaviors, and he is on a dead end road with only one destination, and it is not pretty. I am so sorry for you and your step-son. Stay with us. Apple [/QUOTE]
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