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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 477318" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>I call attention seeking and huge manipulation. He has you bending over backwards to cater to his whims. Poor little boy whimpers but nooooo body looves me..sniff sniff. And you rearrange your day to make sure you have time to console him that of course you love him, in fact you adore him and you will do whatever it takes to show him how much you love him. Havent you just done xy and z? </p><p></p><p>I think I would just be matter of fact when he does this and pretty much ignore him. If he starts it, say something one time like, oh difficult child, you know that is just dumb, we love all you kids and playing this game isnt up for discussion anymore. Find another topic. If you continue to bring it up, I will not hear anything you say after you start talking so I advise you to think about that. And keep up your word. </p><p></p><p>So if he starts whining about Oh nobody loves me and I want mommy to come play cards with me. Well you cant go play cards with him because you couldnt hear him. And If he asks you why you didnt come play cards...tell him you didnt hear him! You dont hear whiners and manipulators.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 477318, member: 1514"] I call attention seeking and huge manipulation. He has you bending over backwards to cater to his whims. Poor little boy whimpers but nooooo body looves me..sniff sniff. And you rearrange your day to make sure you have time to console him that of course you love him, in fact you adore him and you will do whatever it takes to show him how much you love him. Havent you just done xy and z? I think I would just be matter of fact when he does this and pretty much ignore him. If he starts it, say something one time like, oh difficult child, you know that is just dumb, we love all you kids and playing this game isnt up for discussion anymore. Find another topic. If you continue to bring it up, I will not hear anything you say after you start talking so I advise you to think about that. And keep up your word. So if he starts whining about Oh nobody loves me and I want mommy to come play cards with me. Well you cant go play cards with him because you couldnt hear him. And If he asks you why you didnt come play cards...tell him you didnt hear him! You dont hear whiners and manipulators. [/QUOTE]
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