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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 718248" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>It's not only OK NOT to see your son, at this point, it is necessary for your well being.......and his. Others, not in our shoes, have the luxury to judge us and make other plans, but they are NOT in our shoes, so their opinion doesn't work for us. Do what your heart tells you is the right thing to do, you have much experience in this and you know exactly what to do. Trust yourself. You are doing the absolute appropriate thing. </p><p></p><p>Your son is a grown man who made choices that put him in the predicament that he is in. You are on the periphery, exactly where you are supposed to be.....you've temporarily slipped into the FOG, fear, obligation and guilt. The antidote is to do something very kind for YOU. Focus on YOU. </p><p></p><p>(((HUGS)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 718248, member: 13542"] It's not only OK NOT to see your son, at this point, it is necessary for your well being.......and his. Others, not in our shoes, have the luxury to judge us and make other plans, but they are NOT in our shoes, so their opinion doesn't work for us. Do what your heart tells you is the right thing to do, you have much experience in this and you know exactly what to do. Trust yourself. You are doing the absolute appropriate thing. Your son is a grown man who made choices that put him in the predicament that he is in. You are on the periphery, exactly where you are supposed to be.....you've temporarily slipped into the FOG, fear, obligation and guilt. The antidote is to do something very kind for YOU. Focus on YOU. (((HUGS))) [/QUOTE]
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