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<blockquote data-quote="CARP_ENOUGH" data-source="post: 723255" data-attributes="member: 22468"><p>TearyEyed,</p><p></p><p>I know exactly how you feel right now, my son had been arrested 3 times . 1 for pot in car at 17 , # 2 arrest, DUI (which was reduced to wreckless driving) thank God. #3, Violated probation by driving with his suspended license, #4 (which was the one that almost killed me was Petit Theft at Walmart for a $200 phone case)..he did 12 days in jail and he went almost crazy because he could not handle it. He finally was released into a mental ward for a Baker Act and as a Mother, I died inside. </p><p></p><p>At least your son is not local and in another state, but it doesn't help the AGONY you feel I know! You have to be tough for yourself and loved ones NOW that do cherish you. That is the only thing that got me through that last arrest. Since my son graduated HS, he has been slowly getting worse and then improves for 6 months and then something else. You have to live your life!! He doesn't care about how you feel and its not your fault. Believe me, I felt guilty every time! He blamed me for divorcing his father when he was 9 and still does...this forum is helping me to DETACH as cold as it sounds. They have to realize that robbery and stealing is not OK. They have to suffer the consequences as my son did...I pray to GOD he has learned his lesson after the last one...</p><p></p><p>I pray for your son that he gets help and doesn't do any time, maybe they give him probation or house arrest? He has to learn somehow and give him to God, let God take the wheel now from you and take your pain. Hugs to you and you are not alone.. Many blessings and peace for you and your Son.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CARP_ENOUGH, post: 723255, member: 22468"] TearyEyed, I know exactly how you feel right now, my son had been arrested 3 times . 1 for pot in car at 17 , # 2 arrest, DUI (which was reduced to wreckless driving) thank God. #3, Violated probation by driving with his suspended license, #4 (which was the one that almost killed me was Petit Theft at Walmart for a $200 phone case)..he did 12 days in jail and he went almost crazy because he could not handle it. He finally was released into a mental ward for a Baker Act and as a Mother, I died inside. At least your son is not local and in another state, but it doesn't help the AGONY you feel I know! You have to be tough for yourself and loved ones NOW that do cherish you. That is the only thing that got me through that last arrest. Since my son graduated HS, he has been slowly getting worse and then improves for 6 months and then something else. You have to live your life!! He doesn't care about how you feel and its not your fault. Believe me, I felt guilty every time! He blamed me for divorcing his father when he was 9 and still does...this forum is helping me to DETACH as cold as it sounds. They have to realize that robbery and stealing is not OK. They have to suffer the consequences as my son did...I pray to GOD he has learned his lesson after the last one... I pray for your son that he gets help and doesn't do any time, maybe they give him probation or house arrest? He has to learn somehow and give him to God, let God take the wheel now from you and take your pain. Hugs to you and you are not alone.. Many blessings and peace for you and your Son. [/QUOTE]
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