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It's official....I'm in over my head
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<blockquote data-quote="everywoman" data-source="post: 236112" data-attributes="member: 1436"><p>Linda, I am so sorry for your pain. I can't imagine. I, too, have a husband who is a (recovering) addict. His use has seriously affected our relationship. I love the man with all my heart and soul, but when I think about the pain his addiction caused my children and I, I get so angry. If he had died as a result of his choices, I don't know how I would have felt. I imagine you have such conflicting feelings and they change from one minute to the next. When husband was in recovery it took me a lot of Alanon(Narcanon) meetings to get to the point where I understood that nothing I did caused his addiction. Be easy with yourself. Do what you can, and what you can't do, delegate. Is your family still with you? Can someone come and stay until you have a chance to recoup from the loss? I wish I were nearby----Call whoever you can. Reach out. Keep posting. Hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="everywoman, post: 236112, member: 1436"] Linda, I am so sorry for your pain. I can't imagine. I, too, have a husband who is a (recovering) addict. His use has seriously affected our relationship. I love the man with all my heart and soul, but when I think about the pain his addiction caused my children and I, I get so angry. If he had died as a result of his choices, I don't know how I would have felt. I imagine you have such conflicting feelings and they change from one minute to the next. When husband was in recovery it took me a lot of Alanon(Narcanon) meetings to get to the point where I understood that nothing I did caused his addiction. Be easy with yourself. Do what you can, and what you can't do, delegate. Is your family still with you? Can someone come and stay until you have a chance to recoup from the loss? I wish I were nearby----Call whoever you can. Reach out. Keep posting. Hugs. [/QUOTE]
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