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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 236177" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Linda,</p><p></p><p>Take whatever time you need to in order to handle your grief. I do think a grief support group will be helpful WHEN YOU ARE READY. If you need to stay buried under the blankets for a few weeks, enlist the PCA's and in-home therapists and aides at school to help with kt. Do appointments by phone if you are not feeling up to going out. (I think my mom did her therapy by phone for most of 4 years - and her therapist seemed to not have a problem with that.) Write whatever you need the doctor to know and fax it to them with your phone number. Same for kt's therapist. Have the PCA take her, and fax whatever you feel he needs to know to him. Or call or email it to him.</p><p></p><p>Again, when you are ready, AlAnon may help you deal with all of your feelings. Just because your husband died does not mean you will be able to skip dealing with all of those feelings. But don't go until you are physically up to it and emotionally up to it.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry.</p><p></p><p>Remember we love you, kt and wm. And we loved your husband, even though he was acting hurtfully.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 236177, member: 1233"] Linda, Take whatever time you need to in order to handle your grief. I do think a grief support group will be helpful WHEN YOU ARE READY. If you need to stay buried under the blankets for a few weeks, enlist the PCA's and in-home therapists and aides at school to help with kt. Do appointments by phone if you are not feeling up to going out. (I think my mom did her therapy by phone for most of 4 years - and her therapist seemed to not have a problem with that.) Write whatever you need the doctor to know and fax it to them with your phone number. Same for kt's therapist. Have the PCA take her, and fax whatever you feel he needs to know to him. Or call or email it to him. Again, when you are ready, AlAnon may help you deal with all of your feelings. Just because your husband died does not mean you will be able to skip dealing with all of those feelings. But don't go until you are physically up to it and emotionally up to it. I am so sorry. Remember we love you, kt and wm. And we loved your husband, even though he was acting hurtfully. [/QUOTE]
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