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<blockquote data-quote="dreamer" data-source="post: 236181" data-attributes="member: 1697"><p>I am so sorry for your pain & the pressure of everything. technicalities legalities etc can be so awful. when my first husband passed we had no kids.....& I had no service for him as he had only me. I worked at a tiny place that couldn't handle my absence & I was so young I couldn't cover time not working so I missed 2 days. when my best friend passed 3 years ago her husband was so deep in debt due to her illness he could onlt miss 2 days work & he needed our help with things as sadly he cannot read & he has 2 young children. I reunited with my mom on the start of her final illness....beiing a hospice nurse myself by profession...i became her primary caregiver & mentor to my not yet of legal age much younger brother ...his dad passed away a few years prior....alas....if u mite remember at the same time my husband who was theoretically watching our kids wound up ill & in icu & then my son poked out his eye & I wound up torn conflicted overwhelmed over burdened & my difficult child & easy child wound up rather neglected. my husband docs were irate I wasn't with my very ill possibly dying husband & my sons docs were incensed I was alone 5 hours from home with son especially after son had surgical complications. the general world prefers not to consider any individual. persons difficulties. they want things the way they want them when they want so as to make their own job or life easier. I actually remember answering a telemarketer call the day my mom died & I hollered into the phone to please not call cuz we just had a death..& they just kept right on yakking. I pray you will be able to find your way to be able to tend to what must be tended to. all any person can ever do is all a person can do. after that sometimes family or friends help or you simply hope & pray nothing will turn out too awful. you can only do what you can do. hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dreamer, post: 236181, member: 1697"] I am so sorry for your pain & the pressure of everything. technicalities legalities etc can be so awful. when my first husband passed we had no kids.....& I had no service for him as he had only me. I worked at a tiny place that couldn't handle my absence & I was so young I couldn't cover time not working so I missed 2 days. when my best friend passed 3 years ago her husband was so deep in debt due to her illness he could onlt miss 2 days work & he needed our help with things as sadly he cannot read & he has 2 young children. I reunited with my mom on the start of her final illness....beiing a hospice nurse myself by profession...i became her primary caregiver & mentor to my not yet of legal age much younger brother ...his dad passed away a few years prior....alas....if u mite remember at the same time my husband who was theoretically watching our kids wound up ill & in icu & then my son poked out his eye & I wound up torn conflicted overwhelmed over burdened & my difficult child & easy child wound up rather neglected. my husband docs were irate I wasn't with my very ill possibly dying husband & my sons docs were incensed I was alone 5 hours from home with son especially after son had surgical complications. the general world prefers not to consider any individual. persons difficulties. they want things the way they want them when they want so as to make their own job or life easier. I actually remember answering a telemarketer call the day my mom died & I hollered into the phone to please not call cuz we just had a death..& they just kept right on yakking. I pray you will be able to find your way to be able to tend to what must be tended to. all any person can ever do is all a person can do. after that sometimes family or friends help or you simply hope & pray nothing will turn out too awful. you can only do what you can do. hugs [/QUOTE]
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