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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 236184" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>Linda, I know. I really, really know. And it will come in waves over and over, but yet subside just as the tides do. Death seems to be its own entity, one we on this earth have little control over, but one that is rather spiritual and deep within our souls. </p><p></p><p>One of the worst parts is others perception of death, and their lack of empathy. I remember going back to work 1 week after H had died, and my boss going on a 2 hour tirade about everything I do wrong. It was unbelievable. And yet, the real world still went on, and no one really cared about what I had just gone through. So I stuffed the grief down and went on.</p><p></p><p>The problem I am finding now is that I suppressed all of that grief to get back to my life - but now I am having huge repercussions. I wish I had taken and allowed myself more time to grieve. To just feel. I wish I resisted the urge to move on for a little longer, but rather processed my loss. </p><p></p><p>Do what it takes Linda, and allow yourself to just be.</p><p>Many hugs and love being sent your way.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 236184, member: 3301"] Linda, I know. I really, really know. And it will come in waves over and over, but yet subside just as the tides do. Death seems to be its own entity, one we on this earth have little control over, but one that is rather spiritual and deep within our souls. One of the worst parts is others perception of death, and their lack of empathy. I remember going back to work 1 week after H had died, and my boss going on a 2 hour tirade about everything I do wrong. It was unbelievable. And yet, the real world still went on, and no one really cared about what I had just gone through. So I stuffed the grief down and went on. The problem I am finding now is that I suppressed all of that grief to get back to my life - but now I am having huge repercussions. I wish I had taken and allowed myself more time to grieve. To just feel. I wish I resisted the urge to move on for a little longer, but rather processed my loss. Do what it takes Linda, and allow yourself to just be. Many hugs and love being sent your way. [/QUOTE]
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