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<blockquote data-quote="mrscatinthehat" data-source="post: 106050" data-attributes="member: 2063"><p>Well, I too can understand. This year everything that anyone buys difficult child 1 is meant for going out on her own a lt like slsh was talking of. As for difficult child 2 he would probably get very little if anything again. Not that we don't want to but because a)he can't have it where he is and b)why get something for the sake of getting something. </p><p></p><p>We were contemplating having difficult child 1 home for the holidays. Then after he run and other extra curricular activities husband said nope. So we are going to my moms on eve and his sisters on day just us as easy child will be with her dad. I don't know if difficult child 1 will come home over her break or not. I am not sweating it. I know difficult child 2 won't come home then as he is not safe to have here so it just plain ole won't happen. </p><p></p><p>As for you, you have to do what feels right. One thing I guess I missed in all the suggestions was doing somethng for yourself. If there is something you want get it. No guilt. Your christmas present or liberation present whatever you want to think of it. Take care of you. You do a lot for others and so it would be wonderful to do something for yourself.</p><p></p><p>You deserve it. You are a bright Star to a lot of us.</p><p></p><p>Beth</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mrscatinthehat, post: 106050, member: 2063"] Well, I too can understand. This year everything that anyone buys difficult child 1 is meant for going out on her own a lt like slsh was talking of. As for difficult child 2 he would probably get very little if anything again. Not that we don't want to but because a)he can't have it where he is and b)why get something for the sake of getting something. We were contemplating having difficult child 1 home for the holidays. Then after he run and other extra curricular activities husband said nope. So we are going to my moms on eve and his sisters on day just us as easy child will be with her dad. I don't know if difficult child 1 will come home over her break or not. I am not sweating it. I know difficult child 2 won't come home then as he is not safe to have here so it just plain ole won't happen. As for you, you have to do what feels right. One thing I guess I missed in all the suggestions was doing somethng for yourself. If there is something you want get it. No guilt. Your christmas present or liberation present whatever you want to think of it. Take care of you. You do a lot for others and so it would be wonderful to do something for yourself. You deserve it. You are a bright Star to a lot of us. Beth [/QUOTE]
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