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<blockquote data-quote="maryellen19440" data-source="post: 134040" data-attributes="member: 4817"><p>Good Morning, and thanks for all the support and advice I got yesterday. Yesterday was NOT a good day.</p><p>As far as my husband goes; I went and talked to a pastor at our church. He gave me a councelor to call; I asked husband to go and he will go..............I know that he really wants to stop drinking.....And Me, I have several books on order to help me parent these kids properly. The kids have been in therapy most of their lives and still are. They also see a psycologist every 3 months for evaluations and drug changes. Thats coming up on Monday.. Thank god</p><p>Things got worse yesterday Pm when I found out that difficult child# 1 skipped a class and his IEP teacher called me and said that she thought he was still looking at porn. When I got home from work; gone on the computer and there it was. PORN</p><p>Needless to say, I was hurt, lied to and led to believe everything was going good. Of course, as soon as husband got home we talked, decided on consequences and deleted all the garbage from the computer. He is also on My Space (not anymore) The computer has been disconnected!!</p><p>He worked last nite, when he got home I exploded on him> Not the right thing to do (I know) He's not been taking his Depakote lately (not Good) and then his dad had a talk with him. He went to bed, We thought................</p><p>Got up this am to find him and his car gone?? Scarry!! I started calling his friends and found that he left last night and stayed at a friends and got up this morning(Zombie) and went to school. I had contacted the school and told them what happened. The school called me and said he was ok, but out of it and very tired. I asked them to send him home. He is there now and asleep.</p><p>This young man is amazing; he writes poetry and his heart is so big. He is constantly in LOVE with evry girl that pays attention to him and gets hurt always. He is a mess cause his mom has kicked him out of her house a dozen times and now is giving us full custody. She no longer wants to see them. ( nice) They are going to their Mom's (#2 child is actually the grand kid) on Saturday to say good bye and get their things from her house. I hope this goes ok. The kids have not seen her in a month...............I really think they are going to be better off with just one set of parents and one set of firm rules. Mom is a screamer!!</p><p>Some of the things she has done and said to the kids is soooo wrong.</p><p>I want to be there for them and make a difference in their lives. A positive difference</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="maryellen19440, post: 134040, member: 4817"] Good Morning, and thanks for all the support and advice I got yesterday. Yesterday was NOT a good day. As far as my husband goes; I went and talked to a pastor at our church. He gave me a councelor to call; I asked husband to go and he will go..............I know that he really wants to stop drinking.....And Me, I have several books on order to help me parent these kids properly. The kids have been in therapy most of their lives and still are. They also see a psycologist every 3 months for evaluations and drug changes. Thats coming up on Monday.. Thank god Things got worse yesterday Pm when I found out that difficult child# 1 skipped a class and his IEP teacher called me and said that she thought he was still looking at porn. When I got home from work; gone on the computer and there it was. PORN Needless to say, I was hurt, lied to and led to believe everything was going good. Of course, as soon as husband got home we talked, decided on consequences and deleted all the garbage from the computer. He is also on My Space (not anymore) The computer has been disconnected!! He worked last nite, when he got home I exploded on him> Not the right thing to do (I know) He's not been taking his Depakote lately (not Good) and then his dad had a talk with him. He went to bed, We thought................ Got up this am to find him and his car gone?? Scarry!! I started calling his friends and found that he left last night and stayed at a friends and got up this morning(Zombie) and went to school. I had contacted the school and told them what happened. The school called me and said he was ok, but out of it and very tired. I asked them to send him home. He is there now and asleep. This young man is amazing; he writes poetry and his heart is so big. He is constantly in LOVE with evry girl that pays attention to him and gets hurt always. He is a mess cause his mom has kicked him out of her house a dozen times and now is giving us full custody. She no longer wants to see them. ( nice) They are going to their Mom's (#2 child is actually the grand kid) on Saturday to say good bye and get their things from her house. I hope this goes ok. The kids have not seen her in a month...............I really think they are going to be better off with just one set of parents and one set of firm rules. Mom is a screamer!! Some of the things she has done and said to the kids is soooo wrong. I want to be there for them and make a difference in their lives. A positive difference [/QUOTE]
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