J did what he did. He knew the consequences. It cannot be undone, now.
A homeless shelter is exactly where he should be right now.
If he is forced to it, maybe he will stand up.
If it were me in your shoes right now, I would be reviewing all the reasons why difficult child will be better off in the future if he suffers the consequences of his actions now.
Is he going to ask to come home?
What do you need to be doing now to prepare yourself, if it becomes necessary to turn him away?
Or worse yet, if he needs to come home?
It gets to be all about survival, doesn't it Abbey.
Our own survival.
And it's darn tough on our marriages, too.
Sending strength, Abbey.
Barbara
