It is so devastating and frustrating when the one thing you count on "hope" keeps being destroyed.
J is very stubborn. He's still got the "they can't tell me what to do" act going on. I'm really surprised too as he has been told what to do many, many times before. His spirit just won't bend. I betcha he thinks if he gives in then he's done for.
I understand completely as difficult child 1 is pretty hard-headed.
Sending some gentle {{{sunny hugs}}} for you and for hope.
