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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 656912" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Well, as always, your post has brought up some interesting reasons why E. probably hated me. One is that she could never dominate me or get me to do what she wanted. She listened to her mother, my grandmother, no matter what, although she was mean to her sometimes too. But she listened to her wishes. Including the one about dividing the money her mother left ONE of my children. But I don't play that way and we sat Bart down and he didn't care and still doesn't care. He has a sense of fairness and never once brought it up as an injustice to him.</p><p></p><p>I look a lot like E. I don't want to, but I don't have a choice. That could be part of it. The person she hated the most (herself) maybe she saw her in me. I'm not sure one way or the other.</p><p></p><p>But I definitely challenged her on many levels and you don't do that to E. or she'll eat you up alive.</p><p></p><p>My poor father when I think about it. No wonder he was never home. I was never home either.</p><p></p><p>Make no mistake about it. E. hated me. The evidence is clear.</p><p></p><p>Oh, yeah. For a while I didn't want to talk about FOO, but then I asked myself if it helped me to discuss it. IT DOES! Why should I stop what helps me because Thing 1 and 2 may read my view for once. They don't have to. If they do, I don't care. They are now strangers to me, as trite as neighbors I used to know. </p><p></p><p>I do this for me...for us...so we can understand and heal together. It is not about them. I don't go trying to find about their thoughts. If they want to know mine, feel free.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 656912, member: 1550"] Well, as always, your post has brought up some interesting reasons why E. probably hated me. One is that she could never dominate me or get me to do what she wanted. She listened to her mother, my grandmother, no matter what, although she was mean to her sometimes too. But she listened to her wishes. Including the one about dividing the money her mother left ONE of my children. But I don't play that way and we sat Bart down and he didn't care and still doesn't care. He has a sense of fairness and never once brought it up as an injustice to him. I look a lot like E. I don't want to, but I don't have a choice. That could be part of it. The person she hated the most (herself) maybe she saw her in me. I'm not sure one way or the other. But I definitely challenged her on many levels and you don't do that to E. or she'll eat you up alive. My poor father when I think about it. No wonder he was never home. I was never home either. Make no mistake about it. E. hated me. The evidence is clear. Oh, yeah. For a while I didn't want to talk about FOO, but then I asked myself if it helped me to discuss it. IT DOES! Why should I stop what helps me because Thing 1 and 2 may read my view for once. They don't have to. If they do, I don't care. They are now strangers to me, as trite as neighbors I used to know. I do this for me...for us...so we can understand and heal together. It is not about them. I don't go trying to find about their thoughts. If they want to know mine, feel free. [/QUOTE]
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