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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 656924" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Wow...this is CLASSIC and true. It's why Thing 1 and 2 don't get it...why I've hung on for so long. And my normal life, honest, does not include thinking of her. Here is where I let my mind wander to "why." This makes so much sense too.</p><p></p><p>The only difference is that I don't feel guilty. She made me feel small and like a nobody and like a baaaaaaaad person and unloved. It's amazing I still dream about her in vivid colored nightmares. But if she had been good to me, I would have left her rest in peace in my own mind and know that she would want me to go on with my life. She'd loved me. That she did not has caused a lot of problems for me, if only with self-esteem. But it is contagious and the rest of your family sides with the bully. Almost always. I'm so glad I don't have auns or uncles or any more FOO kin...it is easier when there are but two.</p><p></p><p>And when they hurt us, it is on purpose. They have probably been hurt too so they know how it eats at you. But they do it anyway. Meanness is the motive.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 656924, member: 1550"] Wow...this is CLASSIC and true. It's why Thing 1 and 2 don't get it...why I've hung on for so long. And my normal life, honest, does not include thinking of her. Here is where I let my mind wander to "why." This makes so much sense too. The only difference is that I don't feel guilty. She made me feel small and like a nobody and like a baaaaaaaad person and unloved. It's amazing I still dream about her in vivid colored nightmares. But if she had been good to me, I would have left her rest in peace in my own mind and know that she would want me to go on with my life. She'd loved me. That she did not has caused a lot of problems for me, if only with self-esteem. But it is contagious and the rest of your family sides with the bully. Almost always. I'm so glad I don't have auns or uncles or any more FOO kin...it is easier when there are but two. And when they hurt us, it is on purpose. They have probably been hurt too so they know how it eats at you. But they do it anyway. Meanness is the motive. [/QUOTE]
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