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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 657099" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Thanks for yet another healing post. I'm so tired now so no long responses tonight.</p><p></p><p>I remember when my grandmother passed away too. It was awful for me and I fell apart, but pulled myself back together and have easily let her rest in peace in my mind. So many wonderful memories of our daily calls and our laughing over soap operas every afternoon and her interest, true interest, in what I did and her confiding in me and our friendship. I don't have nightmares about her. Those dreams are always sweet.</p><p></p><p>You are so right that you can let go with peace and love if the person who left until next time (my own belief system) was loving and caring toward you. She may have caused grief for some, but I was special to her and I needed it. And she knew I needed it and that's why I was special. And nobody could talk her out of it. Unfortunately, she had no idea how far I'd go to stop her from her divide and conquer tactic at t he end of her life, but I am sure she is one of my guardian angels and I am sure that she now realizes it was wrong and is very sorry.</p><p></p><p>You don't hang on to people who are gone if they have been good to you. You miss them, but you don't obsess about them...the way you think about an abuser who got the last laugh from the grave. Obsess is a bad word for what I mean too. It's more like you don't have to think about why they hated you. You just know that the person loved you and that makes you smile. Love is simple. Hate is complicated...and hurtful.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 657099, member: 1550"] Thanks for yet another healing post. I'm so tired now so no long responses tonight. I remember when my grandmother passed away too. It was awful for me and I fell apart, but pulled myself back together and have easily let her rest in peace in my mind. So many wonderful memories of our daily calls and our laughing over soap operas every afternoon and her interest, true interest, in what I did and her confiding in me and our friendship. I don't have nightmares about her. Those dreams are always sweet. You are so right that you can let go with peace and love if the person who left until next time (my own belief system) was loving and caring toward you. She may have caused grief for some, but I was special to her and I needed it. And she knew I needed it and that's why I was special. And nobody could talk her out of it. Unfortunately, she had no idea how far I'd go to stop her from her divide and conquer tactic at t he end of her life, but I am sure she is one of my guardian angels and I am sure that she now realizes it was wrong and is very sorry. You don't hang on to people who are gone if they have been good to you. You miss them, but you don't obsess about them...the way you think about an abuser who got the last laugh from the grave. Obsess is a bad word for what I mean too. It's more like you don't have to think about why they hated you. You just know that the person loved you and that makes you smile. Love is simple. Hate is complicated...and hurtful. [/QUOTE]
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