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<blockquote data-quote="mom23gsfg" data-source="post: 150322" data-attributes="member: 4445"><p>actually he has pretty much been jealous... but not this bad! he started in on this from the moment i found out about this new one, before i ever even met the man..<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite11" alt=":rolleyes:" title="Roll Eyes :rolleyes:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":rolleyes:" />...</p><p>and yes ive thought of that too,... my mom always told me that the one accusing is ussually the one doing....</p><p> update: now things are really getting wierd and it is making me lose control, im about to start <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/clubbing.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":clubbing:" title="clubbing :clubbing:" data-shortname=":clubbing:" /> his head! <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/grrr.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":grrr:" title="grrr :grrr:" data-shortname=":grrr:" /> touchy subject for me but here goes, ....when i was 7 i was molested by a real older cousin of mine ,which kept me at a distance from the rest of my family because since this was my mom's sister's son he was invited to many of my other familys' homes for holidays and ect. ,so i would not attend, somewhere along the way evryone just kept saying get over it but my hatred grew, it affected all of my relationships (family and otherwise)it was eating me up inside ... i became a very angry person and distrustful of everyone , i couldnt work or sleep for fear of someone hurting my kids....i finally went and sought help...and what i realized i was going to have to forgive this man for myself not him so i could go on with my life ....i had to let go of the hatred...</p><p>he has been in and out of jail for various reasons through out the years and i later learned he was molested himself by his dad when he was young ...so i wrote him a letter requesting to see him while he was in jail...he tried to talk to me like anyone else but , i just looked him in the eye and said i forgive you (which he looked at me like what for? ...he is a big alcholic,and addict so maybe he really didnt know what i was speaking of... the only time he is clean is in jail.) and i left...i felt as if a big wieght was gone off of me...never heard another word from him...</p><p>well 2 yrs ago he got out (for whole week until he got into trouble once again), but he had gotten my number from another family member, and called and just told me about his new fiance and said if i ever did anything to hurt you im sorry. and that was it .</p><p>meanwhile last night i meantioned to hub lastnight i had ran into my aunt at the store and then he starts....</p><p>qoute hub: what id like to know is why you even speak to her </p><p>me:she hasnt done anything to me </p><p>hub:look at what she raised</p><p>me:thats not her fault she tried her best to keep him outa trouble, and you know it breaks her heart...(this woman does know about what happened and believed me but of course like any other mother still loves her child)</p><p>hub:well what id like to know is how you could forgive that sick b**tard, and id like to know why he called here that one time.seems funny to me...</p><p>me: i told you why and it wasnt you it was me so leave it alone its not her fault.</p><p>hub:well id like to know what reallly went on </p><p>me:what do you mean?</p><p>hub:i believe something was going on between you two</p><p>....<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/grrr.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":grrr:" title="grrr :grrr:" data-shortname=":grrr:" /> <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/grrr.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":grrr:" title="grrr :grrr:" data-shortname=":grrr:" /> what the *****! i was 7! and he was an adult! youre the one with the sick mind to say something like that! </p><p></p><p>okay so now we are not on speaking terms, ive had enough of this! my mom said she would go and get a loan for me to be able to leave (since i cant get one)but she cant until june due to another loan she has .so this is really making my nerves on edge and now he is making fun of me for taking my medications and of course bubba hears this now he refuses to take his.this is just too much<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/sad.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sad:" title="sad :sad:" data-shortname=":sad:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mom23gsfg, post: 150322, member: 4445"] actually he has pretty much been jealous... but not this bad! he started in on this from the moment i found out about this new one, before i ever even met the man..:rolleye:... and yes ive thought of that too,... my mom always told me that the one accusing is ussually the one doing.... update: now things are really getting wierd and it is making me lose control, im about to start :clubbing: his head! :grrr: touchy subject for me but here goes, ....when i was 7 i was molested by a real older cousin of mine ,which kept me at a distance from the rest of my family because since this was my mom's sister's son he was invited to many of my other familys' homes for holidays and ect. ,so i would not attend, somewhere along the way evryone just kept saying get over it but my hatred grew, it affected all of my relationships (family and otherwise)it was eating me up inside ... i became a very angry person and distrustful of everyone , i couldnt work or sleep for fear of someone hurting my kids....i finally went and sought help...and what i realized i was going to have to forgive this man for myself not him so i could go on with my life ....i had to let go of the hatred... he has been in and out of jail for various reasons through out the years and i later learned he was molested himself by his dad when he was young ...so i wrote him a letter requesting to see him while he was in jail...he tried to talk to me like anyone else but , i just looked him in the eye and said i forgive you (which he looked at me like what for? ...he is a big alcholic,and addict so maybe he really didnt know what i was speaking of... the only time he is clean is in jail.) and i left...i felt as if a big wieght was gone off of me...never heard another word from him... well 2 yrs ago he got out (for whole week until he got into trouble once again), but he had gotten my number from another family member, and called and just told me about his new fiance and said if i ever did anything to hurt you im sorry. and that was it . meanwhile last night i meantioned to hub lastnight i had ran into my aunt at the store and then he starts.... qoute hub: what id like to know is why you even speak to her me:she hasnt done anything to me hub:look at what she raised me:thats not her fault she tried her best to keep him outa trouble, and you know it breaks her heart...(this woman does know about what happened and believed me but of course like any other mother still loves her child) hub:well what id like to know is how you could forgive that sick b**tard, and id like to know why he called here that one time.seems funny to me... me: i told you why and it wasnt you it was me so leave it alone its not her fault. hub:well id like to know what reallly went on me:what do you mean? hub:i believe something was going on between you two ....:grrr: :grrr: what the *****! i was 7! and he was an adult! youre the one with the sick mind to say something like that! okay so now we are not on speaking terms, ive had enough of this! my mom said she would go and get a loan for me to be able to leave (since i cant get one)but she cant until june due to another loan she has .so this is really making my nerves on edge and now he is making fun of me for taking my medications and of course bubba hears this now he refuses to take his.this is just too much:sad: [/QUOTE]
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