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<blockquote data-quote="Methuselah" data-source="post: 456964" data-attributes="member: 12725"><p>Thanks for your hugs and thoughts. </p><p></p><p>I have read the Logic book, the Explosive Child, The Angry Child and a TON of others. The only book that has been a help, maybe more of a comfort, is Character Disturbance by George Simon. Every word he used has come out of my mouth when I describe the girls' thought process and behaviors. </p><p></p><p>My husband and I spend so much time trying to connect their behavior to the consequences they experience and others unfortunately experience. They are unable to do that, bc it puts their behavior and choices at the center. They can't have that. Ever. For the past year or two, we have tried to make the "extras" in life rewards for doing the right thing--they have clothes not über stylish clothes. Doesn't make a difference. They just make "poor, poor pitiful me" lies, which leave out their behavior as the reason they don't have skinny jeans. </p><p></p><p>Thanks again for the suggestions.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Methuselah, post: 456964, member: 12725"] Thanks for your hugs and thoughts. I have read the Logic book, the Explosive Child, The Angry Child and a TON of others. The only book that has been a help, maybe more of a comfort, is Character Disturbance by George Simon. Every word he used has come out of my mouth when I describe the girls' thought process and behaviors. My husband and I spend so much time trying to connect their behavior to the consequences they experience and others unfortunately experience. They are unable to do that, bc it puts their behavior and choices at the center. They can't have that. Ever. For the past year or two, we have tried to make the "extras" in life rewards for doing the right thing--they have clothes not über stylish clothes. Doesn't make a difference. They just make "poor, poor pitiful me" lies, which leave out their behavior as the reason they don't have skinny jeans. Thanks again for the suggestions. [/QUOTE]
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