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Jumper will never have a get together at ouro house...I'm angry and hurt
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 540320" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Nancy, I take you very serioiusly. You have taught me a lot. I am going to start dropping in on those fires to say "hi" and introduce myself to the parents of the kids (partly to make sure they are there). I do think the kids are good k ids, but it doesn't hurt to check. Jumper didn't say much when I told her I planned on checking in on her bonfires...and I have every intention of doing so every time she goes. I can bring all the kids chips and soda or something, but I'm going to drop by at unexpected times and I still expect her to have her friends back at our house too. We're even going to buy a volleyball/badmitten set and a cooler so I can stack drinks. </p><p></p><p>Last night I made her let me check her cell phone without warning AND her Facebook BEFORE she had any time to change anything and I really saw absolutely nothing ominous on either one.SHe was shocked because I have NEVER looked at either her cell phone or her face book before and it did make me feel better. Not one of the kids even posted more than maybe one swear word every four posts...lol. And no talk of drinking, drugs or sex at all on any of the posts...that can't be a bad thing.</p><p></p><p> But I still want to see what she and her friends do at these get togethers. It can't hurt to get to know her friends and their parents baetter. To be fair, hub and I are fairly shy and don't drink at all so we don't get asked to many affairs (most which are drinking affairs). This keeps us out of the loop. Well, I think I found an acceptable way to sneak in at least a little bit.</p><p></p><p>I never forget how my oldest Julie got into so much trouble. I'm not naive anymore.</p><p></p><p>Thanks again, Nancy. You have become one of the my wisest mentors and I respect your advice and experience. Thanks to everyone else too. I value all your opinions. I have no intention on following Jumper around all the time or putting the screws to her too often unless there is a reason. But I do want to check up on her. I only have two more years where I can make sure all is well <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 540320, member: 1550"] Nancy, I take you very serioiusly. You have taught me a lot. I am going to start dropping in on those fires to say "hi" and introduce myself to the parents of the kids (partly to make sure they are there). I do think the kids are good k ids, but it doesn't hurt to check. Jumper didn't say much when I told her I planned on checking in on her bonfires...and I have every intention of doing so every time she goes. I can bring all the kids chips and soda or something, but I'm going to drop by at unexpected times and I still expect her to have her friends back at our house too. We're even going to buy a volleyball/badmitten set and a cooler so I can stack drinks. Last night I made her let me check her cell phone without warning AND her Facebook BEFORE she had any time to change anything and I really saw absolutely nothing ominous on either one.SHe was shocked because I have NEVER looked at either her cell phone or her face book before and it did make me feel better. Not one of the kids even posted more than maybe one swear word every four posts...lol. And no talk of drinking, drugs or sex at all on any of the posts...that can't be a bad thing. But I still want to see what she and her friends do at these get togethers. It can't hurt to get to know her friends and their parents baetter. To be fair, hub and I are fairly shy and don't drink at all so we don't get asked to many affairs (most which are drinking affairs). This keeps us out of the loop. Well, I think I found an acceptable way to sneak in at least a little bit. I never forget how my oldest Julie got into so much trouble. I'm not naive anymore. Thanks again, Nancy. You have become one of the my wisest mentors and I respect your advice and experience. Thanks to everyone else too. I value all your opinions. I have no intention on following Jumper around all the time or putting the screws to her too often unless there is a reason. But I do want to check up on her. I only have two more years where I can make sure all is well :) [/QUOTE]
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