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Just a bunch of questions this morning....paternity and child support
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 605073" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Yeah I dont think the "assumed father" should lose contact either. I also think the mother should face some kind of punishment which to me would be her going after the biological father and he should have to be responsible for the child support. I dont think a man should be financially responsible if he has been tricked or lied too. There are actual women who get pregnant by a man through trickery. They will tell the man they are on BC or even put a hole in the condom. I have even heard of at least one woman who saved the condom and used that to get pregnant. Then they go after a man who thought he was being responsible to not have a baby. </p><p></p><p>The only person who actually knows what she is doing is the woman. They hold all the power. </p><p></p><p>I actually ended up pregnant within the first month I knew Hubby and I would have had to tell him the child might not be his because I had been sexually active in the month before I met him. I dont know what would have happened because I lost that baby in September. (I met hubby mid July and immediately moved in with him the same day) I miscarried somewhere around 9/20. Yeah I know, I was a huge difficult child back then however we are those one in a million people who managed to stay together for 30 years now. That is something that is so rare and probably would never have happened if we didnt have the boys. They certainly kept us together through some tuff times. Our motto back then was whoever left had to take the boys...lol. Neither of us were willing to go it alone. I dont think either of us could have done it without each other.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 605073, member: 1514"] Yeah I dont think the "assumed father" should lose contact either. I also think the mother should face some kind of punishment which to me would be her going after the biological father and he should have to be responsible for the child support. I dont think a man should be financially responsible if he has been tricked or lied too. There are actual women who get pregnant by a man through trickery. They will tell the man they are on BC or even put a hole in the condom. I have even heard of at least one woman who saved the condom and used that to get pregnant. Then they go after a man who thought he was being responsible to not have a baby. The only person who actually knows what she is doing is the woman. They hold all the power. I actually ended up pregnant within the first month I knew Hubby and I would have had to tell him the child might not be his because I had been sexually active in the month before I met him. I dont know what would have happened because I lost that baby in September. (I met hubby mid July and immediately moved in with him the same day) I miscarried somewhere around 9/20. Yeah I know, I was a huge difficult child back then however we are those one in a million people who managed to stay together for 30 years now. That is something that is so rare and probably would never have happened if we didnt have the boys. They certainly kept us together through some tuff times. Our motto back then was whoever left had to take the boys...lol. Neither of us were willing to go it alone. I dont think either of us could have done it without each other. [/QUOTE]
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