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Just a bunch of questions this morning....paternity and child support
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 605091" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>At least Im not completely alone. Actually a woman can force herself on a man. There is rape by women on men. It actually exists. Do remember that if someone is intoxicated then they cant give informed consent. Or the woman could have oral sex and save the proceeds. What man...heck what person...is going to think they can get someone pregnant by only having oral sex??? </p><p></p><p>Women hold the power to decide if the baby is born even if the father wants it. Now I cant say I disagree with that one but we dont give the father the same rights to decision making. I think if a woman gets pregnant by somehow tricking the man then she should be held completely responsible. </p><p></p><p>As far as a woman on welfare, well, I cant tell you how many women I had in my caseload who got pregnant by "Joey" who just happened to have sex with women in the backseat of any number of cars. Literally...they claimed to only know a nickname of some guy and they all had sex in the backseat of a car and then they never saw the guy again. Absolutely no way to find a real father. Thats why in 96 they did a major change to welfare but it has been changed basically back to the way it was. For as long as I worked at DSS and I know it was still the same in 2006, a person could only be on TANF for 2 years at one stretch and 5 years lifetime. Now there were exceptions such as grandparents raising grandchildren. Oh and they made it so that once a person went on welfare (the check portion) then they could only get it for the number of kids they came in with plus one more pregnancy. No more of the keep having babies to increase the check each month. Thats all changed I think. I know back in 2006, a single person over the age of 21 who had no kids and wasnt disabled was only eligible to get 3 months of food stamps in a year...or it may have been 3 years. I cant remember. Now anyone can just sign up and get them for as long as they want.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 605091, member: 1514"] At least Im not completely alone. Actually a woman can force herself on a man. There is rape by women on men. It actually exists. Do remember that if someone is intoxicated then they cant give informed consent. Or the woman could have oral sex and save the proceeds. What man...heck what person...is going to think they can get someone pregnant by only having oral sex??? Women hold the power to decide if the baby is born even if the father wants it. Now I cant say I disagree with that one but we dont give the father the same rights to decision making. I think if a woman gets pregnant by somehow tricking the man then she should be held completely responsible. As far as a woman on welfare, well, I cant tell you how many women I had in my caseload who got pregnant by "Joey" who just happened to have sex with women in the backseat of any number of cars. Literally...they claimed to only know a nickname of some guy and they all had sex in the backseat of a car and then they never saw the guy again. Absolutely no way to find a real father. Thats why in 96 they did a major change to welfare but it has been changed basically back to the way it was. For as long as I worked at DSS and I know it was still the same in 2006, a person could only be on TANF for 2 years at one stretch and 5 years lifetime. Now there were exceptions such as grandparents raising grandchildren. Oh and they made it so that once a person went on welfare (the check portion) then they could only get it for the number of kids they came in with plus one more pregnancy. No more of the keep having babies to increase the check each month. Thats all changed I think. I know back in 2006, a single person over the age of 21 who had no kids and wasnt disabled was only eligible to get 3 months of food stamps in a year...or it may have been 3 years. I cant remember. Now anyone can just sign up and get them for as long as they want. [/QUOTE]
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