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Just a bunch of questions this morning....paternity and child support
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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 605106" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Sad part about that "unknown" father..........is that many of them weren't lying. They had no clue. </p><p></p><p>And I don't know what reality exists that a woman can't force herself onto a man. Men, sorry to say, are fairly weak minded and tend to think with their crotch when it comes to seduction. (same with some women to be fair) Those that can turn down open season are extremely few, like maybe 1 percent. And the women doing this sort of thing will swear to all that is holy they're using birth control......and pop up preggers. Because it was deliberate. </p><p></p><p>In all fairness?? Men have NO WAY to know if a woman is using BC or not. So placing the bulk of responsibility onto their shoulders or stating they should not have sex is a sexist remark. Would you say the same for the woman? Where is HER responsibility. </p><p></p><p>We talk a good talk of equal for all but we don't like it when it comes down to actually doing it. </p><p></p><p>Women control what they do with a fetus before birth. Um? Sorry, then she should also support the child she CHOSE to have, HER decision, not HIS. He gets NO say so in the matter. </p><p></p><p>How is that equal? If she doesn't want the child for any reason she can abort. He doesn't have that option AT ALL. </p><p></p><p>Sorry. That just doesn't fly with me. </p><p></p><p>Women need to stop *itching about equality when they can't step up to the plate and take on their own responsibility. You go out and have causal sex you know the odds of getting preggers BC or not. (and yes people DO get preggers using all forms of BC......welcome to everyone of my pregnancies) Only females decide whether or not to give birth to that child. Dad has NO say so in the matter, he just gets to foot the bill regardless of whether or not he was ready (long list of reasons) to be a parent or not. </p><p></p><p>The system is set up against males and they simply cannot win. Not the way it stands now. It's not right and it peeves me off to no end. </p><p></p><p>Those that will take responsibility for their children will do so without being forced. Those that won't you probably would be better off not having them involved with the child in the first place. </p><p></p><p>Sorry. I'm in the mood to be blunt today.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 605106, member: 84"] Sad part about that "unknown" father..........is that many of them weren't lying. They had no clue. And I don't know what reality exists that a woman can't force herself onto a man. Men, sorry to say, are fairly weak minded and tend to think with their crotch when it comes to seduction. (same with some women to be fair) Those that can turn down open season are extremely few, like maybe 1 percent. And the women doing this sort of thing will swear to all that is holy they're using birth control......and pop up preggers. Because it was deliberate. In all fairness?? Men have NO WAY to know if a woman is using BC or not. So placing the bulk of responsibility onto their shoulders or stating they should not have sex is a sexist remark. Would you say the same for the woman? Where is HER responsibility. We talk a good talk of equal for all but we don't like it when it comes down to actually doing it. Women control what they do with a fetus before birth. Um? Sorry, then she should also support the child she CHOSE to have, HER decision, not HIS. He gets NO say so in the matter. How is that equal? If she doesn't want the child for any reason she can abort. He doesn't have that option AT ALL. Sorry. That just doesn't fly with me. Women need to stop *itching about equality when they can't step up to the plate and take on their own responsibility. You go out and have causal sex you know the odds of getting preggers BC or not. (and yes people DO get preggers using all forms of BC......welcome to everyone of my pregnancies) Only females decide whether or not to give birth to that child. Dad has NO say so in the matter, he just gets to foot the bill regardless of whether or not he was ready (long list of reasons) to be a parent or not. The system is set up against males and they simply cannot win. Not the way it stands now. It's not right and it peeves me off to no end. Those that will take responsibility for their children will do so without being forced. Those that won't you probably would be better off not having them involved with the child in the first place. Sorry. I'm in the mood to be blunt today. [/QUOTE]
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